Is this guy into me or having a laugh

LegacyUser

Hi

This guy I know has been paying me loads of attention. We are both single and unattached at the moment.

So Yer man goes off to a meeting last night and is staying over in a hotel because of the weather.

Been chatting away in after noon and he warns me never to bend over!!! and appears reluctant to leave and big smile right in my face that kind of thing.

So then later the texing starts

Non stop stream of really funny suggestive texts its like a Carry on film back and forward.
But he has never made a move.... I reckon this guy is not that shy and well able and experienced and all that.

Is he totally messing with me and enjoying the crack and thats it ....... enjoy the game and cope with the celibicy for another while??

sam34

from TGC with love

IrishEyes19

He's probably into you, but I'd be on the safe side and be careful what you put in writing, OP, some people it has to be said, have sick mind games and he could be having a laugh with his friends with suggestive texts. There should be a point if he's interested in you that one of you suggest meeting for a coffee or a date. Id just be careful, thats all really. Make sure you dont say anything that could come back to hurt you:)

toshiba2010

if your into him . which you said you were . why dont you make the move . hellooooooooooo this is the year 2010 nearly 2011 . so dont wait till the year 2012 and say to yourself feck it . i should of asked him out when i had the chance . you go girl ... and yes i am a man by the way ... best of luck (girl)

LegacyUser

I am totally into him the other day I asked him if he wanted some choclate.

He said only if its hot and you are covered in it!!! I didnt know what to say.

This type of thing is going on the whole time, great fun gotta love it but no sign of him making a move.

So given that he's not shy whats going on?

IrishEyes19

Maybe just ask him directly to meet up and if he blows you off, walk away before you become too invested in this

Miss Fluff

Who knows. Texting like that can be an ego boost. Or a break from boredom/monotony. Or a bit of virtual foreplay before hot sex. Goodness only knows what his intentions are. Suggest meeting up and see what he says.

whatsamsn

+1
Suggest meeting up.
You'll soon know his intentions then. If he gives any excuses to not meet up he is just teasing.

There is another aspect tho, if he meets up and wants sex OR only willing to meet up if sex is on the cards ... then you know where he stands. only wants a bit of fun. Would fall in line with how he is acting ... text ya, flirt with ya but only meet you up if its laid on etc.

solovely

Next time he says something suggestive, just say something like you'll have to ask me out to find out, or wait til we're on a real date and then you'll see...or something suggestive like that, where you are putting the ball in his court, but clearly putting on the table what you want.
Definitely sounds like he's interested and just not good at taking the next step towards asking you out!