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Not sure if I'm over reacting

  • 02-12-2010 9:52pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi I think I made the right decision here but I'm kinda doubting myself and would appreciate other peoples thoughts.
    Long story short A friend of mine asked me to give us a chance at a relationship a while back and basically only got in touch now an then an we never went out. We'd just hang out in one of our houses and sleep together and that was it. I got annoyed a few times and told him to get lost but always ended up goin back to him as he'd promise to change.
    So last week we had a row again and decided to just be friends to be honest I fancied a night with him so called last night and he stayed over. Today he said he wants it to be just sex as he doesn't wanna be in a relationship over Christmas as between work and family we wouldn't really see each other an it wouldn't be fair. He said maybe in the new year we could try again an it wasn't cos he doesn't like me he just doesn't want the hassle of trying to do so many things.
    I said no and to just be friends cos I think I'm worth more than that after all that's happened.
    Even writing it I know it's the right thing to do I just wish I knew why he messed about and kinda thinking I should have waited too see what happens in new year. Just wish I'd said no in the first place cos I feel really hurt and I knew what he was like. Can anyone explain what's going on?


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  • #2
    bigbaz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37 ✭bigbaz


    to be blunt,he just wants the ride with no strings,and everything hes saying is an attempt to prolong the sexual relations between you and him without any hassle,eg he wont go out with you until xmas is over,why would anyone who harbours any feelings toward a woman say something like that?the answer is that they wouldnt.


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