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What's a gal to do???

  • 24-11-2010 10:44am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Right not sure what i'm looking for here perhaps just to vent and get some advice. Broke up with my bf of nearly 3 years 6 months ago, horrific break up but over it now. Anyways seeing an absolutely gorgeous guy (both physically and personality) the last 2 and a half months, he loves me and i'm pretty damn sure I love him too. Anyways at an even recently where an ex I went out with years and years ago only for a short period of time was there I knew he'd be there and my bf knows about this, long story short he didn't speak to me at first then we were chatting and he basically admitted he still has strong feelings for me. I got on well with him and we were just chatting about how our lives our now etc. He sent me a friend request on FB but deleted it before I accepted (the link showed up on my e-mail). A couple of things I guess, the ex is annoying me with his carry on, and it's reminded me of something he said to me that really annoyed me and he genuinely doesn't seem to know that it annoyed me so much so i'm considering saying it to him. Secondly i'm feeling guilty because I was chatting to him and having a laugh with him. Don't get me wrong i'd never in a million years go back there even if I was single, but was it wrong of me to have the crack with him? My bf knows he was there and I was chatting to him etc. I don't want to keep it from him.I guess i'm just all confused and hoping someone can provide some clarity.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    In fairness, this is nothing.

    You did nothing wrong by talking to him. And if you're not interested in him anymore (which I'm not sure is the case if you feel the need to write this post about meeting him) you equally shouldn't worry about it.

    But maybe you're denying that there are some feelings still there?


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