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Need Recommendation for Counselling - South Dublin

  • 22-11-2010 11:25pm
    #1
    i_need_help
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    I'm married for 6.5 years to beautiful and intelligent woman with 2 beautiful kids 2&7 but I still have thoughtly thoughts/urges for other women. Basically I'm horny.
    I have kept them to virtual world but this has been found out and OH rightly thinks it is unfaithful, and there was one instance where it went fairly far and tbh not sure how if it could have went from virtual to real life.
    Marriage now in trouble. Horniness not manifesting in relationship although wife is beautiful and stunning. TBH we don't have good communication within relationship as best of time. I have the maturity of a college student and not someone 10 years older. The whole economic situation not helping and am sure I have some depression issues

    Just wondering if anyone could recommend someone that I could clarify my thoughts and get relationship & life back on track. Have already contacted some today but hard to know if they are good. Recommendation would be reassuring.


    Any thoughts on situation would be good too.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Google IACP for a list of accredited counsellors.


  • #3
    Guest444
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭Guest444


    Counselling is a very personal thing.
    Who you decide to go to solely relies on the connection you feel with that person, and what type of person you find it easiest to open up to.
    Is it an older father type figure?
    A Mature lady?
    A guy the same age?

    It is very important however to check that they are IACP accredited, and that they have the relevant qualifications to be working in that field.

    Also, counselling is a slow process, built on trust and honesty, but it does take time. Take time with yourself also and be patient :)

    Good luck


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