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Lacking Something in My Life

  • 22-11-2010 11:01PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi All,

    Over the past year or so I feel as though I've been lacking something in my life. It's like a great hole in my chest that I cant fill.

    A bit of info:
    - Going out with a girlfriend. We're madly in love and have been for 3 years. She's about the only things that gives fulfillment
    - In college
    - I also have a job
    - I'm 19
    - Male

    I cant describe it.

    I know money is an issue. Everyone seems to be going places with their friends. Doing things. I'm not much into clubs (I've tried them I don't know how many times and they're just not my thing - although I go occasionally with friends).

    I just seem to be the guy in between everything. Not going on holidays. Never really doing anything.

    I know what I want to do and that's travel. But like I said money is an issue and I have college.

    This is starting to effect my studying and my work. I'm putting things off and not bothering as much as I used to only exasperating the money worries and stress.

    It's like I've lost my mojo. I'm upbeat and positive, have good friends and a truly fantastic girlfriend. People seem to think I'm happy but honestly I'm bored by everything inside. Clubs, pubs, Ireland and the day to day monotony. But I'm stuck here.

    Does anyone have any suggestions on getting my mojo back?

    Cheers,
    Lacking2010


Comments

  • #2
    LighterGuy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭LighterGuy


    It could be the money issues causing stress. But it could also be you want to live. You want to experience. You did say you wanted to travel. Which lets get down to it - is living and experiencing. But don't worry. You are 19 mate. (Im only 25 so dont think im some old geezer or something :P ) But you will live and experience. If its the money? again, dont get yourself down over it. Its not worth it.

    But dont forget what you currently have op. Life is about ups and downs. You dont know the future. In a years time you could be away from your girl, lost your job (which money will then be really tight) and you'll be missing what you have right now. All that is certain is that we are up at times, and down at others (and when we are down, we miss the up times)


  • #3
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    You sound just like you're average 19 year old college student who's become bored of reality, go on a short holiday and your head will be back on its shoulders again.


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