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present idea for friend type guy

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  • 20-11-2010 9:37pm
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    gillian1983
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    hey all,

    im working in a woodies store for the past 4 weeks and have gotten to know the people i work with quite well, most of them guys in their 20s. im in my 20s too. theres a guy there (28) and hes made it clear to me that he fancies me and knows that the feeling isnt mutual. however he bought me a charm bracelet for my bday (worth about €50) im just wondering if it wud be the right thing to do to get him a small xmas present?
    4 those of y'ee who think i should get him a gift, can you give me any ideas?
    it'd just be a token, perhaps up to €30 maximum?

    any ideas? im seriously smashed so needs to be €20-€30 max


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    Hayzooz
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    gillian1983 wrote: »
    hes made it clear to me that he fancies me and knows that the feeling isnt mutual

    Just buy him a drink at the crimbo party....don't lead him on


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    elbee
    Closed Accounts Posts: 240 ✭✭elbee


    Definitely do not get him a gift if you don't fancy him. You've only known him four weeks!

    IF he gets you one, then I would suggest popping into a gadget-y type shop and picking him up something like one of those bottle-opener-keyrings or something funky and non-romantic. But only if he gets you something, otherwise it will send the absolute wrong signal.


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    gillian1983
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    i can see where you're coming from but i have told him straight out that i am not ever going to be his girlfriend. i just feel bad about him spending €50 on me and me not getting him a single thing for xmas.. also its his bday on friday, should i get him something small for his bday even? hes a really nice guy and id hate to look like a bitch by not making an effort.
    i had planned to buy him a v neck tshirt cos he wears them all the time, what u think?


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    Ficheall
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    BJ in the staff bathroom.


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    elbee
    Closed Accounts Posts: 240 ✭✭elbee


    If you are getting him a gift I like the t-shirt idea, it's thoughtful because he will get wear out of it but it's not insanely personal either.


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