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Starting again 20 years on

  • 20-11-2010 3:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My wife of 20 years has recently moved out saying she wasn't happy for a long time. No fights, no animosity, no third party. She just wanted to get out. Things have been really tough since, but I have to accept she's not coming back and I have to move on. The thing is I have no idea where to start. I'd love to hear from any other people that have been through the same situation. I'm not looking for a support group, just pointers for rebuilding a social life that doesn't revolve around other couples or going to pubs and clubs


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  • #2
    LighterGuy
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    Sorry to hear about that. After 20 years, even if it ended without any animosty it would still surely hurt.

    We all go through the same op. Maybe not ending a 20 year relationship but at the end of the day breaking up with someone is all the same weather it was being with them for 5 years or 20.

    Its the cliche answers but courses, hobbies, clubs are all the way forward. Pretty much anything that involves coming into contact with new people is how to move forward. Do you have any interests you would like to do?


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