Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Help me.. I am so hurt

  • 19-11-2010 10:03pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I need help getting through this I really am hurt by it..

    Recently I have fallen for my best friends sister and well I have fallen for her in such a bad way. I have never felt like this before.. I love talking to her and I love when she even gives me the slightest bit of attention.I am mesmorise by her..

    Things remind me of her through my normal day like songs, adverts,smells ect.. and anytime I am alone (on a bus or when it's quiet in work I think about her). A couple of weeks ago I was at a party her brother was havin a party and she was there and I spent the whole time talking to her ma/da just so I could eventually get to talk to her.. and any girl that is intrested in me I compare them to her..

    Anyway a few days ago my friend told me that she had a serious boyfriend and I am so hurt. I have been in such a bad mood the last few days, I am even fillin with tears writing this..

    Do you think that this is love or do you think I could be feeling like this because I know that I can't have her?


    our age difference is 18 and 20 me being the youngest.


    Any help appreciated......


Comments

  • #2
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    Deeply Infatuated more like. But why are you hurt? I'm not saying theres no reason to feel hurt but what is that reason? Is it because you're jealous of this other guy or because you think she's not into you or what? For that matter what do you actually know about her besides what you could have been told by anybody else? Do you actually know anything intimate about her?

    I can't tell you whats going on here but I don't think its love. While it sucks to feel that hurt - and I've felt that particular hurt, it fcuking hurts - it's not the end of the world and I think the best thing you could do in this situation is cast her off, wish her well and hope she remains happy with this boyfriend of hers and you should go off and have a think about some of these girls that have a keen interest in you. Just don't compare them to your best friend's sister, if every driver in the world compared their car to the lambroghini we'd all be pissed off behind the wheel. Everyone's got something unique and interesting about them, look around.


  • #3
    finbarrk
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,494 ✭✭✭finbarrk


    That's called love. Fortunatley you are at the age that it will happen many more times. Move on now.


Advertisement