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Met a girl Friday Night

  • 15-11-2010 9:19am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Good Mornin' PI,

    Just another one of "those" threads for a Monday Morning :-)

    Anyway, I was out clubbing with a group of friends on Friday night in my local club.

    Drinking and dancing away, the norm. At one stage on the dancing floor I noticed a girl looking at me, gave her a smile etc... to see if she was interested and over the course of the next 5 minutes or so, we kept making eye contact. Anyway, I went over to dance with her for awhile and we grabbed a drink and had a chat for awhile.

    We hit the dance floor for about 10 minutes or so, dancing with each other and had a good laugh, her friends were leaving then and they came over to drag her away, she was half way across the dance floor and I said feck it and shouted across to her if I could have her number. She ran back grabbed my phone and stuck her number in it.

    Fast forward to 4am and I just got home (a little bit drunk), but decided to text her saying "hope you got home ok, it was nice dancing with you". ANyway she text bac returning to compliment and we had a bit of banter. She said she'd hope to see me again for some more dancing and I asked if she would like to meet up for a drink or two. So she asked me for my Social Network name etc.. so she could add me and I duly obliged.

    I haven't heard from her since and didn't get a friend request etc... I really liked the girl and would life to see her again.

    It seems strange that I've had no contact since. Should I contact her again mid-week and see what happens. Was texting her the same night too early (and off putting for her)? I don't know her second name, so can't add her myself on the Social Network site.

    Any advice PI?

    Thanks


Comments

  • #2
    Elbi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 334 ✭✭Elbi


    maybe just give her another text something casual or whatever if she texts back she is interested if she doesnt then she doesnt, least you'l know.

    Just sayin to text because if i meet a guy I never text them ever for the first while if they text me Il reply but Id never start a conversation, not playin games or anything I just think if they like me they will text again and arrange to meet so give another text and see, ignore the fact she hasnt sent you a friend request, could be lots of explainations for that,


  • #3
    mrpink6789
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 830 ✭✭✭mrpink6789


    drop her a text Tuesday/Wednesday just touching base. I wouldnt worry about dropping a text to her that night but what might have happened is once the drink wore off she looked you up on facebook and decided she wasnt interested. Sorry to be blunt but thats worse case scenario territory! best of luck.


  • #4
    Princess Peach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Just text her again.

    Worse that could happen is that she doesn't text back, or texts back saying she's not interested. And what have you lost really?


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hey PI,

    Took all of your advice - texted yesterday - just - a hello how are you keeping etc... threw in a bit of a mess about dancing from the other nite (very lighthearted text).

    No reply since. Time to keep looking I think.

    Thanks for the advice though.

    WY.


  • #6
    Elbi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 334 ✭✭Elbi


    WastedYouth wrote: »
    Hey PI,

    Took all of your advice - texted yesterday - just - a hello how are you keeping etc... threw in a bit of a mess about dancing from the other nite (very lighthearted text).

    No reply since. Time to keep looking I think.

    Thanks for the advice though.

    WY.

    Ah sorry to hear that but at least you know now, and fair play for comin back and lettin us know how you got on,


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