Boy + vibrator

shoes34

So myself and the boy were having sex the other night when he asked if I would take out my vibrator, I gave it to him but to be honest was a tad embarrassed about him using it on. Was just wondering has anyone else ever felt like this or let their other half use it on them?

generalmental

for me it all depends on how long you are with the person, but i dont think there is anything wrong with it at all, if your comfortable with the person you are with you should just enjoy it.

was up to all sorts of stuff with the last partner i had, both for male and female and the crack was 90.

there was this one thing my ex liked it was kinda like a bullet it was actually part of something that was meant to be for a man, but we converted it and she loooooooved it.

just try not to worry about it, if yoy relax you will enjoy

Neyite

absolutely nothing wrong with using toys if both of you are comfortable with it. you say you were a tad embarrassed, but the main thing is, did you enjoy it?

if he is confident enough to suggest using toys then its better than a boyfriend who sees them as a kind of 'threat' if you get me.

Princess Peach

I've done it loads! My ex bought a few of them for me

Maybe it was just a bit awkward the first time. Try it again and try and enjoy it this time. Maybe you were just feeling a bit embarrassed cause now he knows you own one, and use it? But clearly he has no issue with that. Its not a taboo thing and just cause you use it alone, its still a lot of fun to use together.

Just to be clear what did you feel embarrased about exactly?

LighterGuy

I dont know if im reading it wrong :P
but is this the guy using the vibrator on the girl?
or... the girl using it on him?
:eek: :P

Overheal

Using it on her I believe.

It would be a bit like a girl asking me to whip out my porno collection while we were in the act (well, more embarrassing actually. sex toy != porn). Is it maybe that the vibrator is a private thing for you? I take it you don't use it in your foreplay, just when you're alone. I could imagine it would be a little awkward then, if you were asked to hand over this private thing of yours that you weren't expecting to show off.

LegacyUser

It comes down to whether or not you enjoy it. If it's too awkward for you, it's either because you don't feel comfortable with the boy or you don't feel comfortable with the fact he knows you masturbate.

If it's the latter, I'd forget about your worries because any guy with a bit of cop on knows that women masturbate as much as men. If it's the former, you just need to say no until it feels right for you. It might never feel right for you and that's fine. It comes down to your own feelings.

I started going out with a girl recently who I know is into all sorts of sex; toys, dress-up, S&M etc. but so far, we've just had normal missionary stuff going on. I'm into all sorts myself but until it feels right, it's going to stay the way it is. Someday, it will feel right to go a step further and introduce toys or whatever else. We'll probably talk about it beforehand as well because we're comfortable enough with each other to do that. Maybe you should talk to your boy and try and establish what sort of turn-ons you both have?