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does she like me?

  • 11-11-2010 1:38am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    ok at first i just seen her as mayb the best (girl) friend i have but then one night everything changed, i swear like i know its rly gay but i looked into her eyes, and just the way she looked at me made me feel very different.

    she's a kinda confident girl who is much more experienced at stuff like this than me, she's had boyfriends and other stuff and ive like never kissed a girl
    she always jokes that we should make out and always wants me to hold her hand, i remember when i gave in and held her hand(im rly shy with this kinda thing) and she looked back and start smiling at our other friend. her parents and sisters always ask me am i going out with her and i just kinda joke and say ye and laugh.

    the reason i think she mighnt be serious is because shes too up front about it you know what i mean? like we were in cinema and she was like 'i want to sit beside you' and she always like strokes my leg hahha.

    but ok the signs may be obvious but i don't know what to do? shes my first rly friend whose a girl i ever had, i don't know which i want more friendship or relationship with her???


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    plz guys i need your help with this


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    She's probably testing the water to guage your response. It could be because she likes you, or as an ego boost. But you'll never find out if you don't run with it.
    The next time she jokes about "making out", you joke back, "ok, grand, lets!"- if things progress from there, all well and good, if she looks at you with abject horror, well then you can say "chill, i was having a laugh!".
    The most important thing is, feign confidence at all times! Fake it til you make it.
    And you can always blame any awkwardness kissing on the fact ye've been friends for so long, it felt strange to you. A plausible excuse if ever there was one.


  • #4
    Zen65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    riquelme wrote: »
    plz guys i need your help with this

    I'm sorry, I don't understand your post - what was the question?


    Z


  • #5
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Hi rlshyteen,

    I have to let you know that text speak is not permitted in this forum as it makes posts very difficult to understand.

    I think you should work out whether you want to try to initiate a relationship or encounter or just want to be friends because it may not be possible to remain friends if something happens or you have a relationship.

    If you decide you do want something to happen then wait until next time she offers and take her up on the offer and see what she does.

    All the best


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