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To be with or not to be with

  • 08-11-2010 09:38AM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Recently, met this guy and we're near the same age in our 20's. Only thing is I'm worried that this relationship is going down the same route as my relationship with my ex did, its only a few days in and the similarities are happening. A prime example of a similarly would be that my ex was unemployed so we never had much money to go on dates etc and it's exactly the same with him. there is a few other one's but nothing too major. My friends say I should back out while its early in the relationship because these doubts will always be in my head but then I think I will always try and answer the what if's. I'm just wondering what do other people think.


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  • #2
    RedXIV
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,516 ✭✭✭RedXIV


    In fairness, if he can't find a job, thats not his fault. unless of course he's not trying to find a job? I'm sure he'd like to be rich also?

    As regards other things that are similar, without knowing what they are, they could just be standard male traits? belching after a taking a drink, overenthusiastic about video games and thinking farts are hilarious are probably not ideal partner traits but you can't deny the fact they turn up in a large percentage of guys


  • #3
    Pebbles!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 206 ✭✭Pebbles!


    you've said it's only a few days into it. If you like this guy than give him a chance. You can't judge every new relationship on a past one, you'l get nowhere in life if you keep thinking like that! If in a few weeks you are not happy then end it but at least you can say you gave it a go!:)


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