FB ex date?

LegacyUser

Had an deep online relationship with a guy last year. We connected. We meet. Spend days together. We connected. Stopped "dating" cause of distance. I cut contact cause I was hurt with him wanting to keep me as friend with vague explanations on the "break up".
Is it ok to add "ex" back on facebook as friend?

IrishEyes19

Has he added you already again, OP. If not I wouldnt. You could be giving the wrong impression. Not that ex's can't be friends, I know circumstances vary in different situations. It's just he may not add you again, hence embarassment for you. Second he could but he may get the impression you want to get back together. And third, often opening up the lines of communication again can draw you back into the place you escaped from, even as friends there is that history between you and you could find yourself falling again and he may not return those feelings.

Really unless you are sure there will be hurt or discomfort on either side, go for it, otherwise you may be setting yourself up for a fall.

LegacyUser

I dunno to be honest .
No he didnt add me back. I thought we had a good connection even friendship wise and its only facebook, like i could try and not take it seriously like i did when we were "Seeing" eachother. like, it wasnt a normal romance. I wouldnt even call it romance. But we connected and maybe i was too immature to let go?

I am a friend

I am looking at your username but it doesnt sound like you were his gf....

To be honest, he doesnt sound interested. he didnt want a relationship and I guess if he did now, you would know about it..

Move on and good luck.