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cant believe im a cliche!!!

  • 04-11-2010 6:22pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    i have suddenly turned into a cliche, i recently broke up with someone who obviously didnt feel the same as i did. im heartbroken BUT i do believe that being alone is better than being with someone i shouldnt be with.

    i never had huge longing for a wedding or kids.
    im an independant female thirty something with a good stable job and dont have huge money issues.

    so why do i feel like crap all of a sudden?? i have become the cliched thiry something wondering why all my friends are settled with kids and im not!!

    im feeling really empty, i think i should just except my life, i mean i know i dont have any serious problems or anything, i just dont understand why i suddenly feel so bad about marraige and kids when i never had a huge gra for those things!!

    i cant quite believe im so upset about this, its so sad! i dont know why i feel like this.

    how can i get back to my normal easygoing self??
    my friends all have their own lives and while we still get on great, they cant just drop everything anymore and go on p**s or hols or whatever id like to do to cheer myself up!!

    any suggestions very welcome


Comments

  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi, what your feeling and going through is quite normal and although quite upsetting it is a natural progression through the passage that is life, life is anything but sane and what you may feel one minute could change into feeling the complete opposite, you are 34 and you see other people having families and getting married and its quite normal for you to see what road you should take and what priorities are most important to you and honestly you will probaly question everything until a time comes when you know the answers to these questions, for now my advice would be to count nothing in or out and to be open minded about what life can or could offer you in the many choices that are there for you, until then good luck, stay calm and enjoy life and dont look at what you haventh got, look at what you do have.


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