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Ex girlfriend

  • 03-11-2010 10:31pm
    #1
    Kark
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30 ✭


    I found a comment on a faceboook photo of my boyfriend left by his ex.
    Should i be worried? It has upset me.
    I also noticed that she was removed from his list of friends and is now back.
    I haven't confronted him about this yet.
    He has mentioned once that they talked online. This was a long time ago.

    any advise?


Comments

  • #2
    MagicMarker
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    Unless the comment was ''last night was so good xx'' then you should forget about it and move on.

    Don't be one of those partners.


  • #3
    Dr_Phil
    Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭Dr_Phil


    Kark wrote: »
    Should i be worried? It has upset me.
    If it has upset you, then you must've had a reason... An honest chat with your BF is the only way to get things done in this matter. Unless he lies... but lets leave it for another thread.


  • #4
    Boxoffrogs
    Closed Accounts Posts: 458 ✭✭Boxoffrogs


    Kark wrote: »
    I found a comment on a faceboook photo of my boyfriend left by his ex.
    Should i be worried? It has upset me.
    I also noticed that she was removed from his list of friends and is now back.
    I haven't confronted him about this yet.
    He has mentioned once that they talked online. This was a long time ago.

    any advise?

    You sound very angry. I'm not sure you should confront him. It's not like it's being hidden away from you and therefore in all likelihood it's all very innocent. You could actually come out of it looking worse for making an issue out of it.


  • #5
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    Moved from the Ladies Lounge, hopefully you'll get more answers here.


  • #6
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    What was the comment? If we know that it might help... like a previous poster said unless it's clearly sexual then it's unlikely to be a big deal. It's on FB in a public forum, not like it's hidden away...

    Everyone has exes. Lots of people stay on good terms with them. TBH that part's healthy, if a little uncomfortable at times.


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  • #7
    FayeRayRay
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 62 ✭✭FayeRayRay


    You should talk to him about it, as said above its not hidden if its on facebook, just ask him about it let him give his side and try not to get too angry because he might think your accusing him of something that may not have even happened.

    Good luck x


  • #8
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    It would help to know what the comment was/what it related to. I agree that it is all out in the open and transparent so that's fine but personally I would find it odd that one of them has recent re-added the other as a friend. That would suggest they are back in touch in some capacity.

    You should just ask him. There probably is a reasonable explanation so give him the chance to tell you.


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