annoyed now!!!!

longneck

reconnected with very old flame via fb 18 months ago,daily contact via text,phone,chat,skype,nearly always started by him.anyway,following advice from friends and from fellow boards posters,i asked him what was going on,as this was all wrecking my head.got a vague answer of the "i do'nt know" variety.no contact now for about 4 months,just like that.sent a birthday greeting just out of politeness more than anything,which seems to have been totally ignored.
now,so be it if he does'nt want a relatonship,i can live with that,but am really annoyed that this guy took up so much of my time and head space for such a long time and is now ,in my opinion,rude.
am so tempted to let rip,but what does evryone else think?

S23

4 months and nothing. Forget about it. Draw a line under it and move on. Delete him from your facebook, email list, phone, skype, whatever. And if he tries to contact you again in the future tell him to go take a long walk off a short pier

seenitall

Please try and forget about him and move on ASAP.

I completely understand you being pissed off about the waste of time, especially as the contact was so time-consuming and initiated by him, but "letting rip" or letting this guy know in any way that he got to you, will just be pandering to him and THAT will make you feel much worse once you are completely over what happened.

Don't let rip, let it be. For your own ultimate satisfaction.

Jenneke87

No answer is your answer. Go and find someone who does know how facebook/phone works, or even better, someone that talks to you in real life.

tbh

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am so tempted to let rip,but what does evryone else think?

what'd be the point? In years to come you'd just cringe when you realised you'd let him know how much he'd got to you. Forget, move on. The best revenge is a life well lived.

larrymickdick

i was in the same boat as you - stayed friends with an ex after we broke up and the we had a falling out - didn't talk for ages - the started chatting again - ended up messing about for a while then when it suits him he chased ever bit of tail he could. got very annoyed as he was trying to insinuate that i was in love with him (i just wanted to be friends and had said so on numerous occassions it was always him that pushed for something a little bit extra but never anything like commitment) i got bored with the mind games and completely cut him out of my life.

made friends with him recently - what was the point in fighting as life's too short and he's back to his old games - mind f*&k and hot and cold - couldn't be bothered anymore - he can do what he wants i have better things to do with my time than trying to figure him out. I offered friendship ONLY but he doesn't seem to be able to handle - think he can use me for whatever but have such amazing friends already don't need the messed up dud in my life - he's gone and my advice you (you're probably saying finally) is cut him out - all the ways he can contact you - block him ignore him and don't waste your time thinking about him.

he's obviously not worth it