Rejected over penis size

wealthyman

I have being rejected becasue of my penis size I am 6 inches when erect, is this small? This is a personal issue for me as I am hurt and want to see what people deem appropriate??

Johnny Favourite

whatever

LegacyUser

6 inches is about an inch over average, you have nothing to be worried about. Its the perfect size for most girls as too big hurts them

lau1247

it's about average.. a quick google give this.

at the end of the day, different women have different expectations.. you just have to find the right one that is satisfied with what you have..

Johnny Favourite wrote: »

whatever

That's not very helpful is it?

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LegacyUser

wealthyman wrote: »

I have being rejected because of my penis size I am 6 inches when erect, is this small? This is a personal issue for me as I am hurt and want to see what people deem appropriate??

I doubt you were rejected because of your average sized member, there has to be more to it.

Could it be down to (your) inexperience, or that your sexual technique is lacking?

How about foreplay, is there any of that?

Maybe your partner needs to do some Kegel exercises if you were rejected for having a normal sized member.

ted1

have they actually said it's because of your size. Or is it they disappear after doing the deed. There's a saying it's not the size of the boat it's the motion in the ocean. Perhaps you got to look at your performance.

Milkmaid

wealthyman I find it hard to believe someone said that to you about size..I have heard of problems due to a man being too big and causing discomfort but what you are describing is a normal penis size.
Sounds like someone really wanted to offend you TBH.

LighterGuy

6 inches is average size. More than enough for a women aswell.
How were you rejected op?
Did you have a few dates with a girl and had sex?


I would see such a comment as one of two things:

• Smokescreen - She rejected you over something else but an abolsutely bi*ch at the same time making a comment over your size.
  
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LegacyUser

lau1247 wrote: »

it's about average.. a quick google give this.

at the end of the day, different women have different expectations.. you just have to find the right one that is satisfied with what you have..




That's not very helpful is it?

That Kinsey data was self-reported (i.e. guys just answering a questionnaire) and as such isn't reliable.

dsmythy

Kinsey data wrote: »

That Kinsey data was self-reported (i.e. guys just answering a questionnaire) and as such isn't reliable.

Presumably they would inflate their, er, figures, thus that would be even better news for the OP.

lau1247

Kinsey data wrote: »

That Kinsey data was self-reported (i.e. guys just answering a questionnaire) and as such isn't reliable.

That's just one of the example taken from googling..

Don't lose sleep over it.. it's just for rough indication of average

sollar

She sounds like a trollop. Tell a woman like that the problem's not with you its with her being as wide as o'connell street.

Princess Peach

I really don't think you should worry about this! I think the person who said this was just trying to come up with a very mean excuse to dump you, and just wanted to purposely hurt you.

If there was an issue with size or performance, there are many ways of dealing of this and working through it, and a nice person would never dump you because of this. Don't let this put you off in the future

Lenmeister

It's hard hearing something like that, I know because heard it too, and in the same situation. But just remember, you have more than enough to satisfy almost all women. As has been said, sounds like she had another agenda and didn't know how to sort it and as a result you were the blunt of someone else' problem. There's also the point that if she did say to you it's too small, that she meant it honestly and without malice. Some women want big and some women are quite blunt about things so can be neglectful of others feelings. So I'd say don't take it personally, if you've been with other girls then compare what happened and you'll see that you got nothing to worry about.

On a side note I wouldn't trust random surveys like that, especially on the internet. They are almost always totally random people giving fake answers, exagerated to the max, numbers far exceeding the real amount, and many other reasons for you not to believe what you read.

Bob_Harris

These big vagina ladies are getting away with murder.

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Supercell

OP anywhere from 5" - 7" seems to be the normal range.
If you are in that range, and you are then its more about how you use it than anything else. Sure there will be girls that feel they want something bigger but there will also be ones that prefer a more modest size (and 6" is not a modest size).

If she rejected you because of this than move on, everyone is not compatible with everyone else, life would be boring that way.
Believe me you have nothing in that department to worry about physically, just work on your moves

Darthhoob

6 inches is a fine size tbh, but was it length she meant? perhaps she meant girth? did she say anythign at all or are you just assuming? if your girth is 'fine' (that doesn;t mean it has to be big either) then she just has a fanny like a wizard's sleeve...lol or totally lying and or being a bitch about it?

i believe the average is 4.5 to 5.5 inches in length (so i read in a newspaper a while ago anyway) the worst sex i ever had was with a guy with a larger nob and i think he thought he could be lazy in the bedroom because of it? who knows.

but 6inches length...nothing wrong with that at all.

Wibbs

Like others said seems average enough and more than enough to do the job. Maybe you just got a size queen this time? Or just someone being a dick. Regardless I'd try not to worry about it too much.

Fittle

Interesting that you all assume that it's a woman who rejected the OP:rolleyes:

I doubt anyone actually told you that they were rejecting you purely because of the size of your penis. If you could come back and give us a bit more background into what the person actually said, or the situation itself, it would be useful.

There's no right or wrong answer to your issue - what was the conversation that took place? Did you have sex once, and the person hasn't come back for more? Bit more info please Op?

CdeC

look maybe she does want a massive cock which you dont have. do not get too upset about it. the next girl might want rock har abs. just move on is my advice.

Dude111

wealthyman wrote:

I have being rejected because of my penis size I am 6 inches when erect, is this small?

No thats fine...

If someone is gonna reject you over this,THEY ARENT WORTH KNOWING!!

Totally mean and obsurd!!


Good luck

Cuddlesworth

Any bigger then that and you start hitting the cervix on most women when going deep. This causes extreme pain and nausea. And that puts a real damper on your sex life.

Wibbs

Fittle wrote: »

Interesting that you all assume that it's a woman who rejected the OP:rolleyes:

That was my thought too. There can be size queens in the gay community too. It might even be more talked about.

I doubt anyone actually told you that they were rejecting you purely because of the size of your penis. If you could come back and give us a bit more background into what the person actually said, or the situation itself, it would be useful.

Also what I was thinking. Male or female it would be unusual if that was the real reason given unless it was a purely sexual encounter.

pwd

Did she say this to you?

When people break it off for reasons like this they don't give the honest reason: It's like a guy telling a girl he's breaking up with her because she's fat. A man would be more likely to tell a woman that because he thought it would get to her, than because it was true - in fact I think he'd be less likely to say it if she actually was fat.

It's more likely she wanted to hurt your feelings imo, or take you down a peg, for whatever reason.

Then again I knew a girl who broke up with someone because of this, and he must have known because he got it surgically enlarged afterwards. [But he'd been considerably smaller than 6" apparently.]

Wonkagirl

I've had to break up with 2 guys for the opposite reason- they were too big. Nothing worse than a penis that's too big. Give me a fella with a smaller one who knows what to do with it any day. A good tongue is also essential!

anyway, 6 inches is hardly small, jaysis

Little Miss Lady

To be honest it's absolutely shallow of anyone to break up with a guy no matter what size his penis is, there are ways and means around everything these days..
Op 6 inches is really just perfect in my opinion..
There must have been an underlying reason why someone would want to say that to you and agreed with previous posters it was just said as the person knew it would obviously bother you..
Forget about it

Scambuster

Any bigger and you'll be bashing at her womb doors. Once it has a bit of girth to it then she can't complain. I would ignore it.

Ickle Magoo

The OP never once mentioned the rejection was from a woman. Can we stop with the unnecessary euphemisms based on that assumption, please.

wealthyman

People who assumed a woman rejected me are incorrect, it was a man.

After this incident I went out and brought a ruler and infact I am not even 6 inches about about 5.70 :0

Thank you for your responces. At least I have my good handsome looks and towering height to compensate for this.

LegacyUser

I read somewhere before that it's a common man-to-man thing, being rejected for being too short for the recipient. If you think you're small, rest assured that there are smaller ones around (I've had mine laughed at several times by women who've seen far more willies than I).

wealthyman wrote: »

People who assumed a woman rejected me are incorrect, it was a man.

After this incident I went out and brought a ruler and infact I am not even 6 inches about about 5.70 :0

Thank you for your responces. At least I have my good handsome looks and towering height to compensate for this.