I fancy this person really bad!!!!

freighter

Hi I am a man young enough, good looking etc etc. I use Boards a good bit. There is another user that I fancy. I know what she looks like because I have seen her picture posted a few times. I think she is really cute. Also the forums I visit she does too because I see her name on the bottom of the screen.

What should I do. I often felt like sending her a pm but that could freak her out...:o.

Any suggestions folks..

Ickle Magoo

Hmmm, I'm not sure how else you can organise a date or whatever unless you make contact.

Why not just drop them a pm and say you've seen them about boards and like what they are about and if they fancy a pint/meal/trip to the flic's then please pm you. That way you aren't puting in them in the position of having to respond and the worst they can do is not answer you. I would probably leave out the part about knowing what they look like and what forums they frequent so you don't come across as stalker material!

Best of luck.

seenitall

Go for it, OP, in the manner that Ickle suggested. There is nothing to lose. At the very worst the girl will be not interested but flattered. Spread some joy!

(Alternative idea: maybe you could try to build things up a bit first, as in PM about something that was discussed on the threads, etc - just to gauge her interest in talking to you. That is if you prefer the "scenic" approach to a more direct one. )

h8scobes

you should go for it she wont think your weird at all

lol jk

shes going to get a restraining order out against you.

my advice man get a life and meet real people in the real world. harsh but true

freighter

h8scobes wrote: »

you should go for it she wont think your weird at all

lol jk

shes going to get a restraining order out against you.

my advice man get a life and meet real people in the real world. harsh but true

Is that the best you can do.:rolleyes: Thanks Ickle for the good advice I shall try that..

RacoonQueen

freighter wrote: »

Hi I am a man young enough, good looking etc etc. I use Boards a good bit. There is another user that I fancy. I know what she looks like because I have seen her picture posted a few times. I think she is really cute. Also the forums I visit she does too because I see her name on the bottom of the screen.

What should I do. I often felt like sending her a pm but that could freak her out...:o.

Any suggestions folks..

Respond directly to a few of her posts, get some banter going between the two of you. Dunno what forums yee would be on but maybe if they're doing a forum beers head along to that and try and convince her to go.

kylith

Just remember that people's internet persona can be miles away from what they're really like.

kjl

It's true, I seem like a sociopathic ass-hole on-line, when actually in real life I'm quite a nice guy

Zaph

h8scobes wrote: »

you should go for it she wont think your weird at all

lol jk

shes going to get a restraining order out against you.

my advice man get a life and meet real people in the real world. harsh but true

Infracted.

You've already had one previous warning in this forum, keep it up and you'll find yourself banned.