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I like this guy at college

  • 21-10-2010 5:46pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Heya
    Ummmm, I need advice.
    I was introduced to this guy through new friends at college recently and I took a shine to him.
    We seem to get on great. he seems really decent too ,and Im wondering how to kinda...well, become more than friends? But not in a hook up sense.. like in a dating sense?
    Please help, I have had such bad luck with guys and for once, I want a shot.
    (female- if that makes any difference)


Comments

  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ask him if he wants to grab a drink or a coffee some time. There's no magic 'relationship' angel that will do it for you. Take the bull by the horns!


  • #3
    Wonderwall
    Closed Accounts Posts: 38 ✭Wonderwall


    Please, whatever you do, don't take chainsaw's advice. I assume he/she's a troll.

    I agree with JKJEJE: Take the bull by the horns. Just go for it, ask him out!! Also, if you haven't already done so, tell your other friends at college who introduced you two to suss out the situation and see if he likes you before you go in headfirst, if you would prefer.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Um....thanks troll ^^ above there....if i wanted to scare the guy maybe...um, whats sadder is that u went back and added more to ur post...um...

    To the others, yeah coffee sounds good. Ive only spoke to him 3 times, but we get on well i reckon. Im thinking of maybe hanging about more among our friends, to get comfortable, then maybe suggest it at some stage... good idea?
    =)


  • #5
    Zaph
    Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47,351 ✭✭✭✭Zaph


    chainsaws infracted for unhelpful posting.

    Everyone else, if you think someone's trolling please report the post rather than commenting on-thread. Thanks.


  • #6
    Wonderwall
    Closed Accounts Posts: 38 ✭Wonderwall


    uselesswithguys11 wrote: »
    To the others, yeah coffee sounds good. Ive only spoke to him 3 times, but we get on well i reckon. Im thinking of maybe hanging about more among our friends, to get comfortable, then maybe suggest it at some stage... good idea?
    =)

    I think that's a great idea. Keeping a constant flow of contact with him is always good. Just chill out, mention to friends that you like him and see where it goes from there.

    Good luck!!


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