wearing gf's panties

weatherguy

My gf wants me to wear her panties. She says it feminises and calms me down after a hectic day at the office.
Already, I have succumbed to her request on more than a dozen occasions.
I enjoy wearing her knickers, and the attendant attention she gives me while doing so.
However, it is normal for a gf to ask her bf to wear her undies and is it gay if you enjoy it.

seamus

On your last two questions:

No, it's not normal, but not uncommon.

And you'll know whether it's gay or not if you find yourself sexually attracted to men while wearing them.

Funky Kingston

Well personally it wouldn't be something I'd ask my bloke to do ..... but if both of you get the fun out of it then it's okay right ??

+1 with seamus ... are you sexually sttracted to men ? If not then you're not gay .... pardon me for being so obvious

Penny Lane!

Nobody can or should tell you whats normal. If it calms you like you say it does, feels good and you enjoy it than its normal for you. Which is really all that matters. It's only gay if you are attracted to other men so I say enjoy it, and the attention and don't worry about it or what people think. It's your PRIVATE life after all!!

OS119

do you enjoy it?

does your GF enjoy it?

so why do you care if its 'normal' or not?

as to whether its 'Gay' - if, after wearing your GF's panties, you want to make love to any of the blokes you work with, then its 'Gay'. if not, then its not.

LighterGuy

Two sayings:

"What ever floats your boat"
&
"What you do in your bedroom is your business"

Nevyn

It is well with in the normal range of human sexual experience/sexuality, there are other men who do this too and doing it doesn't make you gay/homosexual.

Sanjuro

Wearing a particular style of clothing doesn't make a person gay. Just as being a cross-dresser doesn't necessarily make a person gay. For example- Eddie Izzard isn't gay.

Anyway, it's not 'normal,' but it's not abnormal. If you get a kick out of it, go for it. Don't worry what anybody but you and your girlfriend think.

LegacyUser

Mmmm... I remember putting white lace panties on my boyfriend. I was wearing similar ones. Then I put sheer hold-ups on both of us....Fabulous feeling, two stockinged legs intertwining. And the panties...very sexy!!! :-)

Go for it, OP.

Sounds like a bit of harmless fun. Not something I'd think of but different strokes for different folks.

calex71

I'm sure there are loads of secret panty wearing men who if they read this would be cursing you for having a girlfriend who actually encourages it

Stu

Very Saucy OP. Make sure to ask the girlfriend can you wear a pair of her silk underpants, very smooth and velvety against the skin, erm so i've been told like .

JonathanAnon

Make sure to get her to do something equally embarrassing.. (in case you should split up in the future)...

weatherguy

Thanks for all your replies. Last night, my gf put me into a pair of pink, silky panties she bought for me. I got so horny they were soaking wet in no time. We made passionate love.
This morning she picked them up and put them in the clothes basket. I showered and shaved and returned to the bedroom to get dressed only to find a salmon pair of panties with a little bow at the front and sides awaiting me!!!
I write this mail sitting in my jeans over my panty covered bottom as my gf prepares breakfast and then we head for a trip to town withe me wearing panties!!!

outdoorsygirl

Nothing wrong with it. If you enjoy wearing panties for your gf what's wrong with that? Don't worry, she won't tell your mates, but she might tell her own girlfriends!!!
And she might invite them over some night when she has put you in a nice fresh pair, and then ask you to remove your jeans and parade up and down the room for her friends for a laugh.
Lots of guys like wearing panties, according to various websites and chatrooms.
U seem to enjoy it.

LegacyUser

I'll bet you feel very naughty walking through town as the smooth silk texture caresses your bum cheeks. This is the most hilarious thread but whatever your into OP. At the end of the day you both enjoy it when you wear the girlfriends panties so rock on and if you feel like screaming out in the middle of Grafton street, "i'm wearing my girlfriends panties and it feels wonderful", you go ahead and do that.

Delancey

It's good to stay in touch with your ' inner woman '

FoxT

It sounds like you and your girlfriend can talk openly with each other about sex and trust each other to experiment, play games, & find out what you both really enjoy together. Congratulations to you both!

Sex is a funny game- at its best it is in a place where there is mutual trust, love, and desire, - but it is also a space where fantasies & fun are very important, a place where you don't feel pressure to 'perform' or behave in a certain way, a place where you & your partner can play together & enjoy each other in your own unique way. This does not make it any less 'adult'.

You love your girlfriend, you like female underwear, you both enjoy this game together - go for it. Dont worry about being gay. You are not. You have strong sexual desire for your partner & enjoy your play together. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!

- FoxT