Meeting girls in bars/clubs

galwaylife99

Ok I'm a 20 year old guy and have a general question for the ladies out there. When your in a nightclub or bar, how best do you like to be approached by guys who just want a bit of fun for a night with no long term relationships? An 'the approach' vary depending on whether your looking for a one night stand and long term relationship?

And guys, how do you approach a girl in a nightclub that you want to hook up with for just the night.Tell me all of your moves.

Thanks for any information you give me. Its part of a study we're doing in college and part out of my curiosity to see what technique is used most and what women prefer.

starlit

To be honest I'd rather a guy approach me at the bar for a chat say, think he is more genuine than a guy who would approach me on the dancefloor (he more or less wants more than just a chat and might like a smooch too). Then again I'm more likely to well say 'cop off' and maybe go out with the guy I meet on the dancefloor but not always go home with him though, not interested in one night stands to be honest. Although saying that the guy I chat to I may not always dance with him at some point of the night but I would give him a chance but more likely to end up being friends with him very few guys I met in that way have I gone out with. Then again I'd rather meet guys at the bar than on the dancefloor I can tell the nice boys (bar) from the bad boys (dancefloor)!

rsta

Part of a study?

Lol, Use that line!

galwaylife99

Ok probably not the best thing to say. But am asking out of curiosity because of a conversation I was having with a group of friends of both sexes there a few days ago. Couldn't believe some of the 'tactics' so thought I'd reach out and make it a public question.

HavingCrack

galwaylife99 wrote: »

Ok I'm a 20 year old guy and have a general question for the ladies out there. When your in a nightclub or bar, how best do you like to be approached by guys who just want a bit of fun for a night with no long term relationships? An 'the approach' vary depending on whether your looking for a one night stand and long term relationship?

And guys, how do you approach a girl in a nightclub that you want to hook up with for just the night.Tell me all of your moves.

Thanks for any information you give me. Its part of a study we're doing in college and part out of my curiosity to see what technique is used most and what women prefer.

Can't wait to read your thesis :pac:.

Nightclubs are not places to meet girls, end of story. I'd say your chances of 'hooking up' in a club/bar are far lower than anywhere else, its such a fake environment.

Ickle Magoo

Apart from the fact that there is no one size fits all when it comes to what women like, this is not a relationship issue. Thread locked.