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Not shure if he is really my friend???

  • 14-10-2010 07:16PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    So basically Ive had this friend for about 4 years we became really close to the point where we were like best friends but when I made other friends he would refuse to go out drinking or just socialising in general and he has no friends (both of us are in college), then I started (I feel) stupidly hanging back with him to the point where I completely stopped hanging out with anyone else except him, now I think he is sound out but a few other people Ive started to hang around with over the last few years have ended up in some form of argument with him or just said to me he is a freak or weirdo so I would defend him and end up in a fight with those people or just distant from them. But recently enough a guy Ive been friends with got in a bit of a argument with my friend and this guy told me later on "your friend is a freak and he isint even a real friend to you so why hang with him, he never rings you, never texts you, never calls up to your house" now as usual I defended my friend but then I realised my socalled bestfriend never texts me or does anything to keep in touch with me I do everything and most of the time he dosent answer his phone or reply later on to those missed calls or if I invite him to hang around half the time he wont come out.

    now this is freaking me out because Ive realised I have pretty much no other friends and I feel cut off from everyone else. sorry about this rant and Im not really shure what Im looking for here except hopefully some advice


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  • #2
    Kidchameleon
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    Id say give him a bit of space, get your head together and in future let him fight his own battles


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    Kidchameleon wrote: »
    Id say give him a bit of space, get your head together and in future let him fight his own battles

    I get what your saying but for example now I havent talked to him in 3 weeks I tried ringing him last week and I havent tried to get in contact scince then and he just ignored it, Like that dosent make sense in my mind


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    get rid of this so caled mate..not that getting rid will be difficult, just dont attempt any more contact..this person is dragging you down and it semms to me like the tags that your other friends uses such as freak and weirdo do apply..if the cap fits. he doesnt care about you so why care about him..let him go and mend your other relationships, it will be a lot easier once they see you have dropped the dead weight. I have a friend like that who wont respond and only contacts me if he wants some weed or somewhere to drink.


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