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The way people treat me! Espec. guys!

  • 13-10-2010 5:54pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi this isn't really a sad post just something I've noticed and want to change!

    People, a lot of the time new people I meet, guys especially when they get to know me they are protective of me and treat me like a fragile flower!

    Like that maternal/paternal instinct to look after me? There's a guy I really like in work and he's started to do it! I want him to think of me as a sexual woman not a little child! He looks at me with pity and stuff says things about my appearance. Also the rest in work comment on my weight and say that I'm distant.

    Its also happened before with an ex bf. He started to treat me that way and I got turned off him sexually.
    Obviously Im doing something that provokes it! Or could it just be my childish face and frame? Im not short either 5ft 8.
    I'm 20 and female
    Aaaah! Help!


Comments

  • #2
    easynote
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 112 ✭✭easynote


    If people treatyou as a child it may have more to do with your demenour than how you look. Try acting more like a very serious, grumpy old person- it might help...
    Like this :mad: or this :(

    Not like this:), this:o, or this:p

    You can also try :cool:

    :pac:


  • #3
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    beavisandbutthead wrote: »
    Or could it just be my childish face and frame?

    No.
    It has nothing to do with the way you look and all to do with how you portray yourself to the people around you.


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