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Worried about relocating

  • 11-10-2010 3:07pm
    #1
    sunshine16
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12 ✭


    Hi,

    I met a guy over a year ago but he lives in the uk and we have been travelling back and forth over the last year and eveything is going really well, so we have decided to be together but he has children and so it is easier if I make the move, which tbh I wish I didnt have to cos I love my city but I also love him and seeing as my job is very shakey (on a contract from one month to the next) I think its me who has the make the move.

    My problem is im quite worried about it, I am very close to all my family, and I used to suffer with panic attacks when I lived in London, and I am terried they will come back with this big change in my life, ive started to even now feel anxious when I think about me living there. Even tho, he is why I want to move, im afraid it will all start up again.

    Can anyone give me advice, I feel like a big chicken getting worked up over nothing, when I think of all the ppl who come from miles away not knowing the language and all and here am I getting all stressed over making this move??

    Any advise would be very helpful.


Comments

  • #2
    darad
    Closed Accounts Posts: 109 ✭✭darad


    Sounds like its too much too soon, why do you "have" to make the move? If youre not ready dont do it. I think if it were right for you youd be only too delighted but your not, therefore I think you need to put more thought into it. Its going to be a huge upheaval for you, wait till you are ready.


  • #3
    sunshine16
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12 ✭sunshine16


    Yeah I hear what you are saying, well maybe I am not ready but tbh I think I would always feel like this, but I do feel like I want to be with him and make a life for us together. We have both said that we will let it happen naturally if I happen to get a job then great if not, we wont rush it or I wont just take the first thing that comes along so, I am trying to let it take a natural course, as things nearly always fall into place naturally if you let them. So please God they will do.


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