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Should I say anything?

  • 10-10-2010 11:36am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    I feel almost in a panic this morning. Last week myself and my girlfriend of nearly 4 years split up. We've broken up in the past (several times), but this time we are both determined to do it properly. For reasons I won't go into here, we've come to the decision that, although we do love one another, we're not 'right' for each other.

    Ok, so with that part out of the way, I'll get to the point. We've always been scrupulously honest with each other, broken up or not. But I did something last night which I'm terrified to tell her about; I was with somebody else, only days after the break up. Mostly, I feel so disgusted at myself that I feel I just couldn't tell her. I know she would be completely devastated if she knew; furious too.

    I don't know what to do. Would any good come of telling her? If the shoe was on the other foot, I think I would prefer ignorance. But then again, I'm afraid of simply wanting to justify the easy way out.


Comments

  • #2
    RandyMann
    Closed Accounts Posts: 920 ✭✭✭RandyMann


    No, don't tell her. Nothing good will come of it. She is your ex now and it is none of her business.
    Her personal love life is none of your business also.
    Move on and live your life without informing your ex about what you get up to.


  • #3
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    If you are split up, then while she might not like it, it's none of her business anymore. You've no need or obligation to tell her, doing so would just be making problems for yourself for no reason.

    You are single so you've no reason to feel bad.

    Anyway, I'm sure she won't be hanging around either when it comes to other guys so forget about it.


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