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Sex Question

  • 29-09-2010 9:35pm
    #1
    wealthyman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 103 ✭✭


    I have recently started seeing a guy and well I don't know how to put this but em we have fingered each other in the anal area and I hate it, I have told him this btw. We also performed oral without condoms but we are clean so that should be ok, however our hands were all over each other and possibly could of come into contact with our mouths, could i be at risk from a serious infection considering where our hands were?


Comments

  • #2
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Well I'm not expert but generally ass to mouth stuff is never a good idea. Risk of both minor (stomach upset, vomiting, etc) and major (STI's, major infections) things unless you're really clean, like just out of a shower or something.


  • #3
    oisindoyle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    wealthyman wrote: »
    I have recently started seeing a guy and well I don't know how to put this but em we have fingered each other in the anal area and I hate it, I have told him this btw. We also performed oral without condoms but we are clean so that should be ok, however our hands were all over each other and possibly could of come into contact with our mouths, could i be at risk from a serious infection considering where our hands were?

    If you told him you dont like something ,then he should respect that .Never do anything YOU dont want to do .
    You sa you had oral sex and "we are both clean so that should be ok ".Are you 100% you are both clean ? Have you both gone for an STI test recently ?
    The thing is whilst sex is great with the right person ,unless you know the sexual history of your partner,you must at all times be safe .There is a risk in all sexual activity you do ,be it oral sex (which is small but there nonetheless) or anal sex.
    As for your question re finger ,yes there is a risk of infection , from hepatitis ,to parasites..
    Get a test done for peace of mind ,,and in future play safe


  • #4
    Sgt. Bilko 09
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,466 ✭✭✭Sgt. Bilko 09


    wealthyman wrote: »
    I have recently started seeing a guy and well I don't know how to put this but em we have fingered each other in the anal area and I hate it, I have told him this btw. We also performed oral without condoms but we are clean so that should be ok, however our hands were all over each other and possibly could of come into contact with our mouths, could i be at risk from a serious infection considering where our hands were?
    No you not if your clean the only infection you mostly likely to get is the flu so don't worry.


  • #5
    Rick_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,620 ✭✭✭Rick_


    You never go ass to mouth.


  • #6
    oisindoyle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    Sgt. Bilko 09 wrote: »
    No you not if your clean the only infection you mostly likely to get is the flu so don't worry.

    Im sorry but thats a grossly misleading and incorrect thing to say.The flu is a competely different virus .
    See my post above as to what infections you can (and do ) get from the sexual activity the OP was talking about i.e. fingering and touching mouth


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