first time

browsing2010

what was your first experience?

Annasopra

browsing2010 wrote: »

what was your first experience?

experience of what?

Sir Ophiuchus

I'll take a wild guess that s/he means sexual experience, or more specifically LGB sexual experience.

Can we talk about things like that in this forum, or is that Sex and Sexuality only?

baby and crumble

browsing2010 wrote:

what was your first experience?

Why, I do believe that was breathing air (as opposed to amniotic fluid) for the first time.

I was filled with an amazing sense of peace, and that the last 9 months of my life just suddenly... fit, you know? I realised I wasn't alone anymore, that there were other people, just like me in the world.

And then I crapped myself.

Sir Ophiuchus

zoegh wrote: »

Why, I do believe that was breathing air (as opposed to amniotic fluid) for the first time.

I was filled with an amazing sense of peace, and that the last 9 months of my life just suddenly... fit, you know? I realised I wasn't alone anymore, that there were other people, just like me in the world.

And then I crapped myself.

*shakes head* You're all so mean.

rainbow kirby

Sir Ophiuchus wrote: »

Can we talk about things like that in this forum, or is that Sex and Sexuality only?

If we're talking specific details, that would be more for S&S.

Sir Ophiuchus

rainbow kirby wrote: »

If we're talking specific details, that would be more for S&S.

Thought so, yep. Still think ye're all being hard on browsing2010. They obviously made this account to ask questions like this, which is a big deal for some people.

baby and crumble

Sorry, I didn't mean to be mean.

Not getting into specifics, I was relatively a late bloomer, shall we say. it was great though. And it actually DID feel quite right (all joking aside).

We're still together nearly 7 years later, so I must've done something right!

LGiamani

I remember the first hug I gave the guy and how warm i felt inside at making the connection and the kiss and the feel of his stubble on my face and how strong he was and the closeness we felt for each other. only lasted a night but it was heaven

MultiUmm

My first experience of doing anything with another guy was only a couple of weeks ago.

A group of us were out camping and I came out to one guy I hadn't told before that night. He said he was bi afterwards. So we got a dare to kiss each other on the lips, we did. And we got another one to kiss each other 10 times slowly, and we did so fairly .. intimately. :P

The rest went out of the tent for a while to get some fresh air and wake themselves up, so it was just the two of us there. He went over to the blanket I was under and put his arms around me, and we just lay there. As a "prank" to shock the rest when they came back in he suggested we go into the other room of the tent and I lie on top of him, which we did ...

It sounds horrendously cheesy and somewhat clichéd, but I wouldn't have it any other way. :rolleyes: :pac:

LGiamani

MultiUmm wrote: »

My first experience of doing anything with another guy was only a couple of weeks ago.

A group of us were out camping and I came out to one guy I hadn't told before that night. He said he was bi afterwards. So we got a dare to kiss each other on the lips, we did. And we got another one to kiss each other 10 times slowly, and we did so fairly .. intimately. :P

The rest went out of the tent for a while to get some fresh air and wake themselves up, so it was just the two of us there. He went over to the blanket I was under and put his arms around me, and we just lay there. As a "prank" to shock the rest when they came back in he suggested we go into the other room of the tent and I lie on top of him, which we did ...

It sounds horrendously cheesy and somewhat clichéd, but I wouldn't have it any other way. :rolleyes: :pac:

Cool nothing too mad. He sounds like a decent guy. I hope you see more of him.

SarahBeep!

Shifting at a houseparty. Classy or what!! :rolleyes:

L1011

SarahBeep! wrote: »

Shifting at a houseparty. Classy or what!! :rolleyes:

Probably the most common out there, knowing my mates...

Mine was a clumsy fumbling while preparing a Young Scientist project in transition year. First proper was a bit later, same other person.

lionchild

MYOB wrote: »

Probably the most common out there, knowing my mates...

Mine was a clumsy fumbling while preparing a Young Scientist project in transition year. First proper was a bit later, same other person.

haha! classic!

lottpaul

2nd year of secondary school - had volunteered to be "kit-boy" for school rugby team, (purely for sporting reasons :rolleyes:) - eventually made out with one of the 6th year guys, after much suggestive looks, winks etc.
Very furtive, sweaty, quick - but hot!
He's now married with 4 kids, but I like to think I played my part well.

Gave up the kit job after 6 months - too much work, and had found easier ways to meet guys elsewhere.

sunshineoh9

i have always had crushes on girls (first i can remember was in preschool) but the first time i was every REALLY intimate with a girl (as in more than just kissing) was with my first gf before she was my gf.

it was her birthday and everyone else had gone home, the two of us were alone in her room and we started play fighting (i think i started it with a fake punch on her arm) at this point i didn't even know she liked me! it started to get really rough and we were rolling around on her bed, i seriously thought we were seriously fighting until she pinned me down, looked deep into my eyes and kissed me. i'm pretty sure you all know where it went from there

the relationship lasted about a month until she went off to the air force and didn't even tell me when she was leaving

LGiamani

lottpaul wrote: »

2nd year of secondary school - had volunteered to be "kit-boy" for school rugby team, (purely for sporting reasons :rolleyes:) - eventually made out with one of the 6th year guys, after much suggestive looks, winks etc.
Very furtive, sweaty, quick - but hot!
He's now married with 4 kids, but I like to think I played my part well.

Gave up the kit job after 6 months - too much work, and had found easier ways to meet guys elsewhere.

REALLY do you still see him and is he still hot

lottpaul

LGiamani wrote: »

REALLY do you still see him and is he still hot

Yes - still see him around from time to time - and for a 56 year old he's pretty hot - a ringer for Robert Redford!
But I'd still prefer my own guy any day

T Corolla

lottpaul wrote: »

Yes - still see him around from time to time - and for a 56 year old he's pretty hot - a ringer for Robert Redford!
But I'd still prefer my own guy any day [/

LGiamani

lottpaul wrote: »

Yes - still see him around from time to time - and for a 56 year old he's pretty hot - a ringer for Robert Redford!
But I'd still prefer my own guy any day

Nice one stay cool

Barna77

I was drunk and gave in to my basic instincts. So not very proud of it.

And it wasn't that good...

sunshineoh9

Barna77 wrote: »

I was drunk and gave in to my basic instincts. So not very proud of it.

And it wasn't that good...

its okay... my first time was bad too

foggy_lad

Sixth class and I was kept back after school with another boy to clean classrooms as punishment and got caught in an awkward spot by the cleaner:)

DubArk

I was 19 yrs old and I met this guy in a bar. He was in his early 30’s and ever so handsome. We were walking through the city at about 2:30 am and we crossed over the Halfpenny Bridge and we were just talking about everything, anything. When we reached the other side he took my hand and drew me into the arch. He kissed me.

I will never forget that feeling as long as I live. It was as if my body just awoke for the first time. His stubble against my fresh face was like electricity rushing through every pour, his strong arms holding me close to him.

Later we went back to his. I hold those memories close and with great fondness.

Barna77

DubArk wrote: »

I was 19 yrs old and I met this guy in a bar. He was in his early 30’s and ever so handsome. We were walking through the city at about 2:30 am and we crossed over the Halfpenny Bridge and we were just talking about everything, anything. When we reached the other side he took my hand and drew me into the arch. He kissed me.

I will never forget that feeling as long as I live. It was as if my body just awoke for the first time. His stubble against my fresh face was like electricity rushing through every pour, his strong arms holding me close to him.

Later we went back to his. I hold those memories close and with great fondness.

Precious...

electrobi

First experience with a girl I was 14 and had two girlfriends staying over. We drank a flagon of cider between us and were fairly tipsy. My best friend and I kissed and cuddled in bed while the other was asleep on the floor. The next day they both made fun of me but that same friend and I fooled around for the remainder of the summer. Our "secret" got out and she called me a dyke in front of our group of friends. I didn't go near another girl until I was 22.

LGiamani

DubArk wrote: »

I was 19 yrs old and I met this guy in a bar. He was in his early 30’s and ever so handsome. We were walking through the city at about 2:30 am and we crossed over the Halfpenny Bridge and we were just talking about everything, anything. When we reached the other side he took my hand and drew me into the arch. He kissed me.

I will never forget that feeling as long as I live. It was as if my body just awoke for the first time. His stubble against my fresh face was like electricity rushing through every pour, his strong arms holding me close to him.

Later we went back to his. I hold those memories close and with great fondness.

Very nice lucky b******. I love to be 19 again

Rick_

DubArk wrote: »

I was 19 yrs old and I met this guy in a bar. He was in his early 30’s and ever so handsome. We were walking through the city at about 2:30 am and we crossed over the Halfpenny Bridge and we were just talking about everything, anything. When we reached the other side he took my hand and drew me into the arch. He kissed me.

I will never forget that feeling as long as I live. It was as if my body just awoke for the first time. His stubble against my fresh face was like electricity rushing through every pour, his strong arms holding me close to him.

Later we went back to his. I hold those memories close and with great fondness.

Awww, that's lovely.

Mine was in a bar with a guy I had suspected was gay for a while and knew loosely through friends of friends. I hung around afterwards after all my friends had left the bar and sat alone pretending I was waiting on someone but secretly watching him and his mates. After about 15 mins I got up to leave as the pub was almost closing anyway and he grabbed my arm and told me to hold on. He left then with me and we stood outside and chatted for about 15 minutes. Then when the street was empty he asked if I would mind if he 'did something' and then he leaned in and we snogged for almost a good few minutes. I loved every second of it. He of course turned out to be a total prick in the end but that one snog, my first, was one of the most enjoyable and heart racing moments I've ever had. pity I haven't had many partners to be able to try and recreate that magic again!

Coeurdepirate

I've never even kissed a boy. I'm only 16 though, so hopefully there's still some time :rolleyes:

LGiamani

Seems like everyone that has posted here has had a good experience of their first time. I'm glad that their first time has not been a bad one.

metamorphosis

First kiss was with a friend who was gay too at a 21st the summner after the leaving cert. That adrenaline buzz heart pumping rush is never something you forget.

Wish i had not been drunk for my first time, and wished it had been with a guy who wasn't a prick. But sure it was what it was.

Next time was much better experience and that'd mean more to me than the first two. went for drink with a mate, both got home and chatting on line and decided to head out. Went for a few scoops, moved onto a club and over some beers, we just started kissing. Was unexpected and never any signs before that. It was in the middle of winter and the club was dead quite and we were really the only ones there. Id say anyone walking in and seeing us there got a bit of a shock haha. Went back to his after. We parted ways not long after that. But it is a night that will always mean a lot to me and helped me to get on with things in a way.

Barna77

ULstudent wrote: »

First kiss was with a friend who was gay too at a 21st the summner after the leaving cert. That adrenaline buzz heart pumping rush is never something you forget.

Wish i had not been drunk for my first time, and wished it had been with a guy who wasn't a prick. But sure it was what it was.

Join the club...

The only good thing about my first time was the way we kissed, in a dark alley, the blood rush, and I didn't give a fúck about people passing by :cool:

electrobi

Barna77 wrote: »

Join the club...

The only good thing about my first time was the way we kissed, in a dark alley, the blood rush, and I didn't give a fúck about people passing by :cool:

At least we fit the Irish stereotype...

When I think about it drink is usually involved in the initial kiss of *most* of my "conquests" ^_^ I'd like to change that. A romantic first date in a park would be a nice memory to have and to give to someone else.

Locker10a

Ohh i wish i had a nice story! I cringe when think of mine! I was out one night and somwhow got left behind by the group and didnt know what pub they had gone 2 ! So i met this fella that was in our skewl n he said he would bring me to them ! But first he had to lock the gym which was round the corner! So i was more the fool to go with him thinkin id be back in 2 min! Well once he got me in he kept me taklin n talkin ni wanted to get beck to the othere but nooo he kept me chattin. Then he said he had a sore back and and i gave in 2 massagin it ! Next thing all i could see was his big ugly nuck closing in on me and his toung down my throat ! Ewwwwww twas rotten and i pulled away ! But still ended up ridin him on the boardroom table of the gym !! Hahah I loved what happened i just wish it was with somone else :rolleyes:

LGiamani

Locker10a wrote: »

Ohh i wish i had a nice story! I cringe when think of mine! I was out one night and somwhow got left behind by the group and didnt know what pub they had gone 2 ! So i met this fella that was in our skewl n he said he would bring me to them ! But first he had to lock the gym which was round the corner! So i was more the fool to go with him thinkin id be back in 2 min! Well once he got me in he kept me taklin n talkin ni wanted to get beck to the othere but nooo he kept me chattin. Then he said he had a sore back and and i gave in 2 massagin it ! Next thing all i could see was his big ugly nuck closing in on me and his toung down my throat ! Ewwwwww twas rotten and i pulled away ! But still ended up ridin him on the boardroom table of the gym !! Hahah I loved what happened i just wish it was with somone else :rolleyes:

A ride is a ride

rainbow kirby

Locker10a wrote: »

Ohh i wish i had a nice story! I cringe when think of mine! I was out one night and somwhow got left behind by the group and didnt know what pub they had gone 2 ! So i met this fella that was in our skewl n he said he would bring me to them ! But first he had to lock the gym which was round the corner! So i was more the fool to go with him thinkin id be back in 2 min! Well once he got me in he kept me taklin n talkin ni wanted to get beck to the othere but nooo he kept me chattin. Then he said he had a sore back and and i gave in 2 massagin it ! Next thing all i could see was his big ugly nuck closing in on me and his toung down my throat ! Ewwwwww twas rotten and i pulled away ! But still ended up ridin him on the boardroom table of the gym !! Hahah I loved what happened i just wish it was with somone else :rolleyes:

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coolpaddy

I remember mine like it was yesterday. I was 18 and out with my friends celebrating the end of the Leaving Cert. Nobody knew I was gay at the time. We all went to a nightclub and one of my best friends from school decided he'd stay in my house. (I'd fancied him for ages. He was so handsome and fit.) The 2 of us were walking home together chatting and having a laugh. We got to my front doorstep and we both stopped and looked at each other. Then we kissed. I remember my heart pounding in my chest and my whole body felt alive. We kissed for a few minutes and then ran back up the road to the back of a building and did what came naturally. When we got home we realised my father had gone out so he house was free all night. We were less than impressed having been out in the rain! We shared the bed together and fell asleep in one another's arms. It was magical.

I don't see him around that much anymore. He's engaged with a child now. His fiancee knows all about us and his bisexuality and she's cool with it.

I'm so glad it was with him and not some randomer in a nightclub or from the net. Treasured memories:)

LGiamani

coolpaddy wrote: »

I remember mine like it was yesterday. I was 18 and out with my friends celebrating the end of the Leaving Cert. Nobody knew I was gay at the time. We all went to a nightclub and one of my best friends from school decided he'd stay in my house. (I'd fancied him for ages. He was so handsome and fit.) The 2 of us were walking home together chatting and having a laugh. We got to my front doorstep and we both stopped and looked at each other. Then we kissed. I remember my heart pounding in my chest and my whole body felt alive. We kissed for a few minutes and then ran back up the road to the back of a building and did what came naturally. When we got home we realised my father had gone out so he house was free all night. We were less than impressed having been out in the rain! We shared the bed together and fell asleep in one another's arms. It was magical.

I don't see him around that much anymore. He's engaged with a child now. His fiancee knows all about us and his bisexuality and she's cool with it.

I'm so glad it was with him and not some randomer in a nightclub or from the net. Treasured memories:)

Absoloutly wonderful nice to read the happy stories on this thread. How is coolpaddy now you sound like a sweet wonderful guy and hot i guess

howsyourmother

I still have not had a first time! I have been with a couple of guys, we have ended up in the bedroom but then I cant perform because of nervousness! It happen again sat and was disappointing taught by now I'd be ok! any advice?

LGiamani

howsyourmother wrote: »

I still have not had a first time! I have been with a couple of guys, we have ended up in the bedroom but then I cant perform because of nervousness! It happen again sat and was disappointing taught by now I'd be ok! any advice?

Get stuck in and do'nt look back

DubArk

howsyourmother wrote: »

I still have not had a first time! I have been with a couple of guys, we have ended up in the bedroom but then I cant perform because of nervousness! It happen again sat and was disappointing taught by now I'd be ok! any advice?

howsyourmother is a case of no howsyourfather!? Not as green as your cabbage looking; me thinks!

stephen_n

First time kissing a girl was so long ago I can't remember but it was when I was still in junior school that much I'm sure of. First time having sex with a girl I do remember and would like to say it was a lovely experience but it was like loosing your virginity is for most people I assume, quick painful and awkward but at 15 I just wanted to find out what it was like First kiss with a guy was on the dancefloor in the George about 4 years ago, nice guy but wouldn't say I was hugely attracted to him. I'm very shy when it comes down to it and he made it more than obvious he was interested and I was really dying to find out what it felt like to kiss a guy, like an itch you just have to scratch. Felt nice but weird at the same time as I was waiting for the bit in my head to kick in telling me I shouldn't be doing this, which of course it didn't. Totally different to kissing a girl and made me feel very different in a good way! A few weeks later he also became the guy I lost my virginity in that sense with. Funnily enough that was fairly awkward too but not quick and painful!

rochey84

My first time isn't half as cool as the ones posted here but I think it may get a few more stories going. Its a bit of a long one so hope no one minds:

I was online chatting to this guy for ages and he asked me to meet him at Stephens Green shopping centre that Saturday, I agreed but quickly changed my mind afraid that people would see us and instantly know we were 2 gay lads (I was 15 at the time so I was a little bit ignorant) anyway, we went ahead and arranged to meet up another time same place etc etc and again I cancelled, this happened a fair few times, thank god he was understanding.

Eventually he figured out what it was that was stopping me so he told me one weekend that he was house sitting for his nan and if I wanted to call over I was more than welcome. I was 16 at this stage and had obtained a reasonable fake ID and his place was on the other side of the city so I arranged to meet a few friends (who were none the wiser) in a pub in town to give me some dutch courage, and eventually went for a taxi over to his place.

When I got there the effects of the drink had worn off and I was a nervous wreck, we sat and chatted for a while and then eventually I said that I hadn't come all this way for a chat and walked over to him to kiss him (as an earlier poster said it was like an itch you just had to scratch) well the kissing felt amazing and next thing I knew he was inviting me upstairs and I willingly followed.

After we did what we did though I got freaked out at how much I enjoyed it and tried to convince myself I was straight and bolted out the door like a bat out of hell feeling ashamed and embarrassed.

I didn't talk to him again for about a year, apologised and since then we have met a few times and are friendly. I was really lucky, he was a sound genuine caring bloke, it could have been so different if it had been anyone else!!

10 years on and we still talk occaisionly. So thats my story it wasn't as organic as some of the others but I still think it is quite nice. Maybe this might resurect this thread as well as I think it is pretty interesting provided the stories remain broadstroked and not too graphic!

LGiamani

rochey84 wrote: »

My first time isn't half as cool as the ones posted here but I think it may get a few more stories going. Its a bit of a long one so hope no one minds:

I was online chatting to this guy for ages and he asked me to meet him at Stephens Green shopping centre that Saturday, I agreed but quickly changed my mind afraid that people would see us and instantly know we were 2 gay lads (I was 15 at the time so I was a little bit ignorant) anyway, we went ahead and arranged to meet up another time same place etc etc and again I cancelled, this happened a fair few times, thank god he was understanding.

Eventually he figured out what it was that was stopping me so he told me one weekend that he was house sitting for his nan and if I wanted to call over I was more than welcome. I was 16 at this stage and had obtained a reasonable fake ID and his place was on the other side of the city so I arranged to meet a few friends (who were none the wiser) in a pub in town to give me some dutch courage, and eventually went for a taxi over to his place.

When I got there the effects of the drink had worn off and I was a nervous wreck, we sat and chatted for a while and then eventually I said that I hadn't come all this way for a chat and walked over to him to kiss him (as an earlier poster said it was like an itch you just had to scratch) well the kissing felt amazing and next thing I knew he was inviting me upstairs and I willingly followed.

After we did what we did though I got freaked out at how much I enjoyed it and tried to convince myself I was straight and bolted out the door like a bat out of hell feeling ashamed and embarrassed.

I didn't talk to him again for about a year, apologised and since then we have met a few times and are friendly. I was really lucky, he was a sound genuine caring bloke, it could have been so different if it had been anyone else!!

10 years on and we still talk occaisionly. So thats my story it wasn't as organic as some of the others but I still think it is quite nice. Maybe this might resurect this thread as well as I think it is pretty interesting provided the stories remain broadstroked and not too graphic!

Really nice story truly honest and hopfully you have met someone as nice as yourself since

rochey84

Thanks LGiamani, I'm in a relationship now the last year and have to say I'm pretty happy, if only we lived closer together but isn't that what cars and buses were invented for lol!!!