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Confused by this guy

  • 23-09-2010 9:41pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    What reasons bar the obvious would a guy ask a girl for her number?

    Been messaging a guy on facebook, wouldn't really call him a friend, just someone I see occassionally. He now has asked me for my number and to catch up for a drink sometime. I'm in shock to say the least, as he is stunning and has girls falling all over him and I wouldn't be the hottest girl in the room by a long shot!

    Just wondering does he really like me or is this just a guy being friendly or something? I don't know, just doubt he's interested as he can have any girl he chooses.

    Any other reasons a guy asks for a number and to meet for a drink???


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    It might be that he wants to use you for sex. I hope this isn't the case though. Just be very careful OP, some people (especially good looking guys) have very little consideration for other people's feelings.


  • #3
    HavingCrack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,847 ✭✭✭HavingCrack


    He may just be friendly OP or he may be interested in you. If you fancy him give him your number and see what he does. If you don't like him don't-end of!


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    spamboo wrote: »
    Just be very careful OP, some people (especially good looking guys) have very little consideration for other people's feelings.

    You're right in that some people are out for what they can get, but I don't think good looking guys are especially inconsiderate.
    Give him your number and see where it goes! If he treats you badly, tell him to get lost. If he treats you well, keep seeing him : )


  • #5
    Sanjuro
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,241 ✭✭✭Sanjuro


    Jesus. No wonder it's so difficult being a guy and trying to meet women. It could be very possible that this guy is genuine, likes you and would like to meet you on a date-basis. I'm actually pretty shocked that everyone just jumps to the conclusion that he's after you just for sex. Not every guy is like that, you know. OP, you said you guys have been chatting, and he has casually asked you for a drink some time. For god's sake give him the benefit of the doubt. You're under no obligation to do anything, but raising your defenses before you've even met him for the first drink isn't going to do you or the situation any good. Relax and meet casually. You'll get a good idea of his intentions and can take it from there.


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