Life is funny

electrobi

I've had no action for months...nay, over a YEAR. Not that I was ever looking for any. So this weekend I went out with friends and ended up picking up a chick in a straight bar and a dude in a gay bar. (I am female)

Return of the mack:cool: There is hope for us all.

L.Jenkins

8 months since my last funzies I do miss it though, but don't at the same time. Chasing woman can be exciting enough at times.

electrobi

ItsThatManAgain wrote: »

8 months since my last funzies I do miss it though, but don't at the same time. Chasing woman can be exciting enough at times.

The best thing was I wasn't chasing. But had been wondering for a while when am I ever gonna get some chick action. The fella I scored later was just an added bonus as I liked him forever but never thought of pursuing anything...because I'm a bit odd and generally frigid. So I took him to a gay bar!(The dragon)

It was just cool to be reminded I actually can sometimes act on human desires. And they were both hot

As a side note; I went to The George the next night just to hang out with some friends and got a few stray hands and looks my way. So not my thing. That place is so pretentious. I know now I don't need to look in those places to find someone. It's just luck at the end of the day.

L.Jenkins

A bit of fun now and again is great. It's been to long for me but I'm not fussed. You're not a touchy feely kind of person?

Rick_

Consider yourself lucky. It's been nearly 3 years since my last experience with a guy. And it's not through lack of trying, I just keep encountering w*nkers.

L.Jenkins

Dont worry paddy you will find someone. Where do you go to meet guys?

Rick_

Online mostly, I don't like the scene so tend to stay away and any nights I have been there I can feel every set of eyes in the place burn holes in my head and all the older men, sex craving twinks and complete weirdos are the only ones that I seem to end up chatting with, feeling uncomfortable around and making excuses to avoid.

So many nice guys I've been chatting to online but they are all too far away to be practical, some aren't even in Ireland.

Kanoe

I had a stoking hot summer. Everything is autumnal right now though.

ps, Paddy we sound like we live in the same town

electrobi

ItsThatManAgain wrote: »

A bit of fun now and again is great. It's been to long for me but I'm not fussed. You're not a touchy feely kind of person?

I hug my friends but that's about it. I don't like strangers hands... I've knocked a few strangers out because of their hands

electrobi

Paddy C wrote: »

Online mostly, I don't like the scene so tend to stay away and any nights I have been there I can feel every set of eyes in the place burn holes in my head and all the older men, sex craving twinks and complete weirdos are the only ones that I seem to end up chatting with, feeling uncomfortable around and making excuses to avoid.

So many nice guys I've been chatting to online but they are all too far away to be practical, some aren't even in Ireland.

Paddy I'm in the same boat! I've only met people online(not even on the same continent) the past few years and I hate "the scene", it's beyond pretentious. That's why I made the thread, as it was such an *event* for me! The girl I was with was a friend I had met a couple of years ago and I'd invited her to a gig with a couple of my mates. Not thinking *at all* that anything would happen. And then it just did. With two people...not at the same time of course. Last week if someone had said to me "don't give up" I'd have been like yeah whatever, but a bit of action, however small, is defo a boost to the ego

stephen_n

Paddy C wrote: »

Consider yourself lucky. It's been nearly 3 years since my last experience with a guy. And it's not through lack of trying, I just keep encountering w*nkers.

Do you mean 3 years since you were in a relationship?

L.Jenkins

electrobi wrote: »

...however small, is defo a boost to the ego

A bit of action or a date seems to be quite a big bit of a boost for me. My testosterone levels at the moment seems to cause me a bit of bother from time to time In the next 6 months ye can probably expect some angry mood swings and posts :P

Dave_24irl

Paddy C wrote: »

Online mostly, I don't like the scene so tend to stay away and any nights I have been there I can feel every set of eyes in the place burn holes in my head and all the older men, sex craving twinks and complete weirdos are the only ones that I seem to end up chatting with, feeling uncomfortable around and making excuses to avoid.

So many nice guys I've been chatting to online but they are all too far away to be practical, some aren't even in Ireland.

Snap dude

I never go to gay bars and I am bi so mostly tend to stick to girls but I would love to meet a lad around my age who is also bi (or a gay dude who is more of the straighter 'laddish' type like myself)

Hang in there! It'll happen for ya man.

Rick_

zxy wrote: »

I had a stoking hot summer. Everything is autumnal right now though.

ps, Paddy we sound like we live in the same town

Hmmm, do we now..... :P

stephen_n wrote: »

Do you mean 3 years since you were in a relationship?

Last relationship ended 3 years ago and that was the last time I did anything with a guy up until the present date. Sad I know, but I just don't do casual encounters. Not my style.

stephen_n

Paddy C wrote: »

Hmmm, do we now..... :PLast relationship ended 3 years ago and that was the last time I did anything with a guy up until the present date. Sad I know, but I just don't do casual encounters. Not my style.

Not really sad at all since it's your choice to hold out for a relationship! I couldn't do that tbh, after 3 months I start to get a little nuts, probably more sad that I have been with people that I had no physical, spiritual or mental connection with just to satisfy that urge!