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Lost my love

  • 18-09-2010 6:04pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Me and my gf of 4yrs well ex gf broke up 2 months ago for reasons that were largely due to me bottling things up about me being unhappy in work extra and causing me to become very cranky and she felt i didnt listen to her and i was no longer her number 1.
    Anyways she has had to move country in order to get work and is leaving next week. This time apart has really made me realise how much i love her and how much she means to me and last month i tried to get her back and failed, she said at time she wants to and sometimes she doesnt want to but we cant at the moment cause of all the emotions with her leaving.
    Ive have had to go to counselling to help me with the break up as its affecting me big time and im having alot of panic attacks so on so on, this has not helped me and i still feel that its as if it happened yesterday and if anyone asks how i am i just feel like bursting into tears and the last few nights i have just randomly woke up to me crying during the night because of her. Anyways she is leaving next week and i really dont know what to do, should i ring her and tell her how i still feel or let her just leave, she has been texting me a bit the last week asking how i am and we chat a bit but thats it. I just know she is the love of my life and i am so scared of the day next week when she leaves cause then she is gone for good and i just really dont know what to do. I really dont know what i am getting out of this post i just wanted to express how i am feeling and what i am going through.


    Thanks.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    This is op, advice anyone please


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    Unhappy!!!!! wrote: »
    This is op, advice anyone please

    Definitely call her and tell her - life is too short. Good luck


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Tell her. What have you got to lose? Even if she says no, you'll know either way and work on getting back on track without her. Broken hearts suck, but most of them heal eventually.


  • #5
    miec
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭miec


    Hi Op

    I am sorry you are having such a hard time, break ups suck, I think for what it is worth you should talk to her face to face and tell her what you said in this post, it is worth a try because I think you will regret it later if you don't. There is no guarantee that she will stay but I am great believer in trying. Either way if she stays or goes, I think the counselling is a good thing, you need it to learn to open up better so something like this doesn't happen again and it will help you to cope. I hope it works out for you Op.


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