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  • 14-09-2010 11:25pm
    #1
    justcheckin
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    Hello guys! I am not really comfortable talking about my problems on the internet, but I have used forums and stuff online so I figured I would at least give it a try... anyways, hope you can help shed some light on my situation:

    There is this girl I like. We have class together (in college) and we sit together in every class, I think it would be awkward at this point if we DIDNT sit next to each other. Anyways, I am always makin her laugh, and there really isn't ever a awkward moment in person. Anyways, my problem lies with text messaging I guess lol. What is TOO MUCH? I mean, I know I don't want to come across as desperate, and I know that I gotta take it easy.. but im just worried I am blowing it...

    We txt each other randomly pretty much all week (not really weekends ever), but it usually is school related... unless I can get the conversation rolling on something else, and it will last back and forth a few times, or more. But some times I feel like I am talking too much, or that ill get real nervous if she doesn't respond to my last message. I feel like she just looked at it and said "OMG why is this guy still texting me". How do I know if she is looking at it and not responding on purpose, or she is just looking at it, acknowledging it in her head, and im just freakin out? I txted her twice in a row today (like 40 min in between) and I feel like im a complete idiot for doing that lol. I mean I can tell you my biggest problem is that I feel like when a conversation is over, even on a txt, it should always have a conclusion, or some form of "see ya"

    Ive asked her out to eat with me twice, and each time she hasnt been able to because she just ate (no big deal, but said she would of if she hadn't of just ate, and to try again later; thats what I took out of it when she said "lol and next time you are looking for something to eat I wont have already eaten!" Facebook, mind you) or it was too early to go eat (10am after class let out early, again understandable, in person)

    Do I just need to back off? I don't want to ruin anything that we might have going, if we even HAVE something going. I wish I could say I have found a sign that she likes me... but other then the fact I am makin her laugh 100% of the time I'm talkin to her, I just dont know. I dont want to come across as trying to hard either, I would rather back off completely then be "that weird guy" you know what I mean?

    Sorry for this long rant, I am just out seeking advice on my situation. Thanks for your time in advanced.


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