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head is being wrecked because I am broody

  • 11-09-2010 10:41pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    As above I am a 19yr old girl , I am twenty in december and its my first year in college,and thing is I can't get this stupid thought of wanting a child out of my head.Is like a constant pop up though and its starting to scare me. I don;t know what it is thats keeping this in my head and I feel very wierd over it. is this normal or ? also I am with my bf the last year and I don't want children in general as the thought scares me but then the constant thought comes up ??


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  • #2
    Chuchoter
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    dnnowhatswrongwithme wrote: »
    As above I am a 19yr old girl , I am twenty in december and its my first year in college,and thing is I can't get this stupid thought of wanting a child out of my head.Is like a constant pop up though and its starting to scare me. I don;t know what it is thats keeping this in my head and I feel very wierd over it. is this normal or ? also I am with my bf the last year and I don't want children in general as the thought scares me but then the constant thought comes up ??

    I get like this every now and again (I'm 17 btw) and I really want a baby. It goes away after a week or two :P I honestly don't know what it is.


  • #3
    seenitall
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    If you are in college, I am sure you could always use a bit more cash than you have. Why not take up a bit of child-minding/baby-sitting for some pocket-money coming in? Try to "specialise" in very small children, as well.

    I can tell you, once you get a taste of the reality of minding a small baby at 19, you will be cured of your broodiness in no time at all! ;)

    Best wishes.


  • #4
    mariaf24
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,242 ✭✭✭mariaf24


    Hi girls,

    Why not offer to babysit for a friend or family member. Ye will see how much work babies are, they take up your entire life, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. From the moment you become pregnant your life will never ever be the same again.
    Babies cry alot, don't sleep much and require so much care and attention. Im my opinion (I could be slated for this) It takes two parents to raise a child and this probably will not be the case if you have a baby when you are so young. (I mean it would be difficult for a mum on her own)

    I'm sure you would want the best for your child, financially and emotionally. In a few years, p.g. you will be able to provide that. So go to college, get a good job / wage and then think about having a child.:)


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