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to add or not to add

  • 08-09-2010 03:58PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    so, met a woman a few weeks ago, went on a couple of dates, slept together once and both realised there was nothing there. while we were out one of the nights tho, her friends were all there and i found myself ridiculously attracted one of them - caught her staring at me a few times too.

    now, i have NO way of bumping into this woman and no number for her so my last resort is facebook...

    lady number 1 is not on facebook, so no chance of "stumbling across" lady number 2 via her.

    lady number 2 (i found out through a lot of trawling) is on facebook.... so, do i add this woman and hope for the best or just leave it?
    if i do add her, a) will it be blatantly obvious that i had to go searching, as she didnt tell me her surname...and b) will it be blatantly obvious that im into her....or c) will i just look like a total dick because i had been with her friend etc...?!


Comments

  • #2
    ApeXaviour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,523 ✭✭✭ApeXaviour


    Add her and stop overthinking, if she likes you she won't mind that you may have trawled.

    After a few days/weeks (sufficient amount of time for a seed to be planted) if you see her online send her a chat.


  • #3
    pollypocket10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 223 ✭✭pollypocket10


    +1

    Stop over analyzing and just add her :)


  • #4
    Zen65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    sigh... wrote: »
    .......will i just look like a total dick because i had been with her friend etc...?!

    This is a very likely outcome. Maybe she will find it charming that you sought her out on FB, but I would not bet money on it.

    Is there any other way you could meet with her? I think contacting Lady #1 (by phone,.... the old-fashioned way) to get a number would be a better bet. If she wasn't into you, she might be glad to set you up with Lady #2.


    Z


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