What did I do??

LegacyUser

Hey guys,
So I had been seeing this girl which I met 2/3 months ago, it was nothing serious, couple of dates etc and I'll be honest I wasn't that into her but I said I'd leave things run their course and see, maybe it might not have been love at first sight but something could grow over time. Anyway it didn't and about 2 weeks ago we kinda said see ya around type thing and moved on which I wasn't overly heartbroken about!
The following weekend I was out at a mates house party and got chatting to another girl, I didn't think much of it and didn't even get her number! The next day she added me on facebook and we got chatting again and I gave her my number! In the meantime a few of my other mates who are mutual friends were telling me she's well into you, ask her out etc! She text me anyway and we arranged to go out! In the meantime one of her friends was having a party in her new house and she asked me to go along with her which was nice because I didn't know the friend at all so she was pretty much taking me as her other half!
Anyway I went to the party which was last weekend and since then I have heard nothing what so ever from her besides when I text her to ask were we still on for the date to which she jus replied sorry I can't!!
I have no idea what has turned her off me so much, I didn't know anyone else at the party so I was paying lots of attention to her! I did have a nice few drinks but was by no means wasted so I dont think its that! I've sent her a few texts but got no reply so I just dunno!
Thing is I do really like her, I suppose its lust but she is georgous!!
Then the other girl I was with first text me, wanting to meet up and saying that she thinks we could be good together if we put some effort into it, although I've no real interest I'm affraid if I don't I will more than likely have lost them both and I don't really want to be single!!
Any ideas??

monzer

Girl 1 - Your not into her!
Girl 2 - She's not into you!
Solution - Forget them both and move on! You can't make someone like you and there's no point in being with someone for the sake of it when you don't feel anything towards them!!

LegacyUser

I don't really want to be single!!
Any ideas??

you are not ready to be in a relationship, if you're seriously considering getting back with a girl you don't even fancy just so 'you're not single'

This is quite probably the reason the 2nd girl isn't interested :

got chatting to another girl, I didn't think much of it and didn't even get her number

few of my other mates who are mutual friends were telling me she's well into you, ask her out etc

I suppose its lust

I don't really want to be single

....its called desperation my friend, and believe it or not its just as much of a turn off for women as men

Girl number 2 feels the same way about you as you do about girl number 1, you just don't do it for her no big deal, but unlike you some people (girl no 2 included) have a bit more self worth and think there's no point in being with someone for the sake of it..

darad

We've all seen the movie, "Shes just not that into you" - sadly it happens, move on and find someone else