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I've been dumped

  • 07-09-2010 5:10pm
    #1
    Jennifurball
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭


    Well I say dumped, we only had 1 date but he has been leading me on for nearly 2 weeks now.

    We were talking for a few hours on facebook on Friday, everything was fine, I text him Sat morning asking how he was, he replied straight away with a nice text. He goes to a wedding on Saturday afternoon, after that I hear nothing at all, hasn't been on facebook, ignored my text.

    He was supposed to be spending the day/night with me on Sunday but I knew that wasn't gonna happen.

    I find he deleted his POF profile on Sunday morning, then today he removed me as a friend on facebook. I text him asking exactly what I had done wrong to make him delete me and he said nothing, he has taken POF off cos he 'can't be arsed with it anymore' and apologised, I replied saying why didn't you tell me this last week when I asked and he replied saying everything was ok last week, then said I am gorgeous and genuine and can do better than him. I replied saying well if it was ok last week what has changed? No reply.

    So that is that. I am not too badly hurt but I am angry about how he went about it really. He had absolutely nothing to lose by telling me he wasn't interested. I had to find out through him deleting me. He was so keen though, I don't get it at all. I think he is already with someone and the wedding made him panic cos he will prob get tagged with some other woman on his arm, he has also removed his marital status. :rolleyes:

    He seemed so genuine and open with me, oh well.

    Onwards and upwards eh? I will never understand men! :pac:


Comments

  • #2
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Ah, he probably got scared. Who knows? But someone without the balls to say they are not interested in you to your face is one you're better off without.

    See it as a lucky escape and move on. :)


  • #3
    redhed35
    Closed Accounts Posts: 31 ✭redhed35


    theres a lesson here,dont get too involved too soon.
    theres a lot to be said by taking your time getting to someone,you have not been dumped he just was not interested...no big deal,it was only 2 weeks,a stranger really.

    the guy may have had some personal issues going on,or a girlfriend he argued with 2 weeks previously! either way,your footloose and fancyfree to date again!


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