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I can't get over him am i a stalker

  • 04-09-2010 07:24AM
    #1
    Weetbix
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 72 ✭✭


    I can't get over him am i a stalker
    School just started and everything is going well so far, But one:
    I made a big mistake the year before and asked a boy i really liked out, we have been friend's since the first year of secondary school (High school senior year in american terms) and knew each since primary school.
    And i have found him attractive, fun and just great but never actually thought i would go over the friend barrier but around 2ND year (8TH GRADE) I just started to really like him, so i finally worked up the courage in 5Th year (11Th grade) and he said "I like someone else, am sorry"
    oh he a year below me so he was in 3RD year at the time.

    This crashed me unfortunately. I prepared myself for getting rejected (BECAUSE i knew i would get rejected don't know i just felt it) but it still hurt. In my life i have never felt so weak and sick it felt like when you fell as a kid and you hurt your self and you felt the pain of it wouldn't leave. Unfortunately this was my first time saying anything to a guy about how i feel, or even looking twice at a guy, I have liked guys before but mostly for there face nothing more really. I really wanted to cry but didn't and i just could bring myself to because its just a guy.

    We finally got over it after 2 week of not talking to each other.
    We were friend's again, We were back to hugging each other and crap friends do, but i still really liked him and felt my fondness growing for him each and everyday. So i thought summer would be great because we are away for one another. I Went to the Irish summer camp didn't really met another new am was very shy so it was hard and the only black person there just made me feel uncomfortable lol. But i had a great time everyone was just lovely, i came back thinking its finally over, but no i still liked him even after all that hes still nice and sweet. He doing transition year this year and am afraid he'll change but am more afraid that because of him i wouldn't be able to concentrate on other (Not studying no one can pull that away from me *_*) guys that are not him even though i have no interest in dating i just don't wanna end up a stalker or obsessed or broke or have a hate for all men or have him hate me. What should i do? To 1 get him out of head
    2 Stop my self for wanting to be with him
    3 keep our friendship still the end.
    4 Should this not even move me at this time of the leaving cert?, and how can i stop it from doing so?
    My thoughts on this is maybe it because i would like to meet him (Kiss) maybe thats all!
    Oh i think it going too far because anytime am on facebook rare really but when i am i go on him page and jus look around WTF!! AM I OBESSED O_O


Comments

  • #2
    jdivision
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,260 ✭✭✭jdivision


    In reality you showed a lot of strength in telling him. As you get older you'll realise that's an important character trait - the ability to express emotion. all i can say is that those intense feelings will fade in time - be open to meeting somebody else and perhaps try to avoid for a while being one on one -when you're in a bigger group you don't dwell on him all the time.


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