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Fancying A Guy In Work

  • 03-09-2010 2:12pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Just wanted to get a couple of opinions here.

    I'm very attracted to a guy at work eventhough we haven't even had a conversation yet.
    We've exchanged lots of glances but I'm pretty sure hes caught me looking at him more than vice vearsa. Unfortunately i think he has a girlfriend so I should really just stop looking now eventhough its a nice way to pass the time at work!

    I'm just wondering how would it make a guy feel to have a girl looking at him during the day?
    And would he continue looking back eventhough he has a girlfriend?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Just wanted to say to forget about him. He isn't worth it if he has a girlfriend.

    I fancied a guy in work who also had a girlfriend, nothing ever happened until i left the place and he kissed me. But nothing will ever happen as he has a girlfriend.


  • #3
    Zen65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    fancy work mate wrote: »
    I'm just wondering how would it make a guy feel to have a girl looking at him during the day?

    Maybe flattered, maybe not. Perhaps he thinks you see a flaw in his features and you are secretly laughing at him? There's no way to know, but it's best to avoid looking at him so often, after all, he has a girlfriend, so why risk upsetting him?

    fancy work mate wrote: »
    And would he continue looking back eventhough he has a girlfriend?

    For most men, looking is harmless. We do not consider it to diminish in any way our regard for our partners. You should not read into it to suggest that he wants anything more.

    Be at peace,

    Z


  • #4
    LegacyUser
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    I think this has just become a stupid habit now cos he isn't even very attractive. I'd be better looking than him so i'd say hes getting a bit of an ego about it at this stage but also i am afraid of wrecking his head by looking at him.

    I'm very understimulated in work so its just been nice to have someone to look at.


  • #5
    HavingCrack
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    op here..fancy work mate wrote: »
    I think this has just become a stupid habit now cos he isn't even very attractive. I'd be better looking than him so i'd say hes getting a bit of an ego about it at this stage but also i am afraid of wrecking his head by looking at him.

    Ha OP, you're the one being a bit big headed here rather than the other way around. I'm sure if he was interested in you he would have made some sort of effort to talk to you properly before now. Contrary to what the media tells us not every man wants to have sex with every single woman possible, he's probably just not interested in you so move on and find someone else :)


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