upset.

LegacyUser

Hey.
Im going unreg for this.
So, im a girl, 20.
Right. Thing is, im desperately longing for a nice guys attention/love.
Everytime i try to hint to a guy, it goes unnoticed.
Thing is , I only ever seem to attract creeps. And its annoying as i do deserve better.
I dont want people here to tell me "your still young" - im sorry, but i actually am ready to love and be loved but cant understand why i cant attract anyone but creeps..im worried that this is all im ever gonna "get"...its upsetting me tbh....alot..

LegacyUser

Stop hinting. Just say it or ask him out. Easy!

HavingCrack

Try making your hints blatently obvious (aka subtle as a brick), what many girls consider clear indicators just will not be recognised by lads, we're just hard wired differently :pac:.

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

Trying too hard. Chill out and relax and let love come to you rather than you going to it.

Men can see overearger women coming a mile off and it frightens the **** out of us.

LegacyUser

hey!

I try not to come across as overeager .
but no guy ever chases me or shows enough interest to pursue me. its annoying.
it just pisses me off as my other friend for example is an absolute pyscho stalker and guys just get it on with her. to me, she looks desperate and over eager when running around a nightclub after our peers.
yet, im friendly ,i have a sense of humour when out, dont get drunk. etc basically the opposite to her and ive been told im stunning. so what the hell?

LegacyUser

unreggy wrote: »

Thing is , I only ever seem to attract creeps. And its annoying as i do deserve better.

but cant understand why i cant attract anyone but creeps..im worried that this is all im ever gonna "get"

What exactly is a "creep"? That just comes across as very disrespectful to the guys who are approaching you.

unreggy wrote: »

hey!

I try not to come across as overeager .
but no guy ever chases me or shows enough interest to pursue me. its annoying.

Why not approach a guy instead of complaining about how nobody decent approaching you?

Wompa1

Need more info on what qualifys as a creep. Is it that they are just unattractive? Or is that you get into relationships and they treat you like garbage?

It's funny other lads can sport "creeps" a mile off, yet women have so much trouble weeding through them.

I suppose when your trying to pick a rose you might get a few pricks along the way...

LegacyUser

actual weirdos like.
creeps!
and theres also the guys who only want to "meet up" - in other words, sex.


its so upsetting. i dont hook up so theres no reason they should think its ok to ask me to hook up :O

Wompa1

unreggy wrote: »

actual weirdos like.
creeps!
and theres also the guys who only want to "meet up" - in other words, sex.


its so upsetting. i dont hook up so theres no reason they should think its ok to ask me to hook up :O

If you don't ask you won't receive. The guys wouldn't be asking if they didn't get ir from other girls before....

Have you tried speed dating? or meeting guys through sports clubs or something? Sounds like your not suited to the pub/club scene to be honest.

Or just get with guys and when it comes to the end of the night leave them with your number and skidaddle...

Richy06

Hints don't work with guys. Plain and simple.
If a girl is interested, they need to be fairly direct about. We're just that thick as regards things like that.

miss no stars

do you ever show any interest in befriending guys you like? As in, want their company for more than just "being with them"?

[-0-]

Don't force it girl. Just be yourself and it will happen naturally - which is the best way.

Zeouterlimits

unreggy wrote: »

actual weirdos like.
creeps!

That's not very specific, what do you mean?
What kind of guys are you looking for and how are you meeting them?

Da GOAT

guys never pick up on hints.fact, im a guy.

shellyboo

unreggy wrote: »

actual weirdos like.
creeps!
and theres also the guys who only want to "meet up" - in other words, sex.


its so upsetting. i dont hook up so theres no reason they should think its ok to ask me to hook up :O

LOL. No law against asking someone anything. All you have to do is say no. Just because it's not your thing doesn't mean they're creeps for asking you.

Your attitude is pretty hostile, are you sure you're not putting that across to guys when you're out? Tip for you - men are shy, too. If you don't ask you don't get. Try approaching someone you like for a change and stop waiting for it to be handed to you on a plate. That's not how things work anymore!