feel like an arse

tupac10

story is was with a girl for few weeks found out she was with my brother.. **** it thats life just shows what shes REALLY like.. so took saturday off went out with few from work.. ended up with this girl i met threw work.. real nice girl, gorgeous and smart.. defiantly out of my league.. but all her friends said she likes me so.. had few drinks, ended up sleeping with her and spent the rest of the night just talking really thought we clicked really like her. she give me her number and hasnt really txt me.. i've txt her a few times but now reply.. thing is i was very drunk during sex so im not sure what happened and i keep things thats why shes not replying.. i really like but feel like i've made an arse of myself.. cant stop thinking about it.. and it really doesnt help my already low self esteem.. what should i do?

Taltos

OP - am not really following you.
Do you want advice on the girl you shared with your brother / the one night stand that you were so drunk with you are unsure what happened / both / neither?

Sorry but from reading your post I am unsure what it is you are looking for. Can you please edit or repost to help those like me who are a bit lost?

Ickle Magoo

Why don't you call the girl you like and apologise, say you know you were drunk but you really like her and could you take her to the cinema/dinner/whatever by way of apology and if she accepts, try to keep a lid on the drink.

Best of luck

tupac10

OP - am not really following you.
Do you want advice on the girl you shared with your brother / the one night stand that you were so drunk with you are unsure what happened / both / neither?

Sorry but from reading your post I am unsure what it is you are looking for. Can you please edit or repost to help those like me who are a bit lost?[/QUOTE]


Sorry if i made it unclear.. its the girl i like that im unsure what happened.. she wasnt as drunk as me which makes things worse..


if i call her tho i dont want her to think im sad pathetic fool and for her to feel sorry for me.. the thing is she was telling me the next morning how much she liked me and we talked for hours but now it feels like shes ignoring me..

ldxo15wus6fpgm

I don't get what you have to feel sorry for about the sex... she was probably aware of you being drunk, unless she herself was drunk too. Either way that's not really something to be sorry for...?
Wait a day or two. You've text her, if she wants to she'll get back to you. She'll probably be on to you fairly soon and THEN you'll feel like an arse

And with regards to the self esteem thing... look at this. You're after pulling an absolutely smashing girl by the sounds of things, which is a lot more than plenty of other fellas have ever done! There's got to be something great about you if you can attract a girl that could have any other fella

sickofwaiting

You texted her a couple of times and got no response. Leave it at that, she is obviously not interested. Calling her would look like pure desperation as she has already been ignoring your texts. If she was interested you can be sure she would have replied to the very first text you sent. Just take it on the chin and move on, it happens.

princeofparma

Sounds like it was just a one night stand. Lots of girls give their phone numbers to guys but never text or call back. Girls just do it not to hurt guys feelings. She probably had a nice time with you but she wasn't looking for anything serious.
Maybe you should stop drinking as much in future and just have fun meeting women socially. Sleep with them if you want to and have no regrets. You only live once.
Just be glad you know your ex was cheating on you and avoid getting into a relationship with someone who might abuse your trust.
You are certainly not an ass.
Think of yourself instead as a stud and God's gift to women.:D

JonathanAnon

She gave you her number the next day, so I would not think that you did anything to scare her off.... Give her a chance to reply... And for the love of god, dont KEEP texting her or you will scare her off...

There could be genuine reasons why she is not texting you back (i.e. lost phone, away from home, screen broken on phone), but if it is the case that she has had a change of heart (and doesnt want you to contact her) then you continually texting her will not change this situation.... I would leave it a few days without contacting her and then maybe give it one last shot at ringing her before the weekend. But DONT keep on texting her..

And dont be so hard on yourself... You would have been an arse if you just hadnt tried to pull her. It's easier just to do nothing, but you got up off you're aforementioned "arse" and got this girl's attention. Try to relax, and not obsess about these things, if you did make some mistake apologise and learn from it. Good luck man..

tupac10

Harmony Future Author wrote: »

I don't get what you have to feel sorry for about the sex... she was probably aware of you being drunk, unless she herself was drunk too. Either way that's not really something to be sorry for...?
Wait a day or two. You've text her, if she wants to she'll get back to you. She'll probably be on to you fairly soon and THEN you'll feel like an arse

And with regards to the self esteem thing... look at this. You're after pulling an absolutely smashing girl by the sounds of things, which is a lot more than plenty of other fellas have ever done! There's got to be something great about you if you can attract a girl that could have any other fella ;)

you might mot think it but that has really cheered me up dude..


story is she has texted me back and seem interested but like she texts me back few times but stops then.. shes done it today and last nite.. i dunno.. i really like her but its hard to know what she feels?? like it must be a good sign if she text back..

Esel

Are you dumb (i.e. unable to speak)?

If not, then call her. Texting in this scenario is for wimps.