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Don't know what to do

  • 29-08-2010 8:34pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey :D

    So in a bit of pickle... a few months ago i met this guy i knew way back when...

    So we hooked up... made it a total Fcuk buddy thing... made a rule that there would be no feelings blah blah...

    So now... he's got feelings... i'm not to sure how I feel... I like him, i don't like him... the usual... its starting to bug the hell out of me!! I really like being in his company and the sex is great :D

    But there is one thing I do know.... some of my friends don't like him and i'm sure as hell my mother won't (my dad is deceased) its not that he's a bad boy or anything i just know my mother will not think he's good enough!

    So here I am wondering I don't want issues with my friends or my family... so do i just end it and forget about him or keep going... as these things go it always ends up with feelings and you either make a go of it or not.. so i'm thinking while the feelings arent that strong yet should i just walk away?

    he broke up with his ex about a year or 2 ago but she still lives in the house with him.. no kids involved but she won't leave the house and they can't sell... and he gets grief from her all the time because of me...

    SO really am i wasting my time here???

    Sorry if this thread makes no sense at all.. I suppose i just wanted to see what others would say...

    Thanks!


Comments

  • #2
    mylittlepony
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 531 ✭✭✭mylittlepony


    Why is the Ex giving him grief over you?
    Its none of her business or is she jealous that he have you??
    Im assuming the ex is single.

    To hell with friends and family what they think about him.
    Its up to you if you want to be with him.
    As long as you are happy with him, then its good.
    If you not 100% happy then walk away, also no point wasting his feelings if you just want to carry on the 'friend with benefits' game.
    It never end on good terms, there always someone getting hurt.

    Good luck.


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