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Girlfriend, baby, and the end.....

  • 25-08-2010 9:44pm
    #1
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    Ok, let me start at the beginning. Met a foreign girl few years back we got engaged we had a rocky spell, (she saw someone else.) We made up. We had a kid. Our daughter is now a year and 2 months. Been the usual arguments all along nothing major. I have also went to live in her country.

    Last night the mother of all blow outs! Huge fight! Over her not pulling her weight, i was a way for a bit working, and since i got back, she expects me to do everything, housework childcare, you name it. All while she sits around, watches tv, and moans she cannot finish her paper for university because she has no time! ( I spend 5+ hours with our little girl out of the house everyday since i got back!)

    Anyway tonight her birthday, i was out at 1pm, arrived home at 7pm with daughter, and she was no where to be seen. Rang her, and was told, to do childcare and housework on my own as she was out with her mates getting drunk!

    Im at a lose end, time to wave goodbye?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,799 ✭✭✭StillWaters


    Context needed. How long were you away working for, how long are you back? Eg if you were away for 2 weeks, and she was parenting alone for that period, and you are only just back, it is entirely understandable she wants to kick back, and take a break.

    More info needed.


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