Major Ard On..for an EX

LegacyUser

Yeah, no real nice way of putting it. Mixed up feeling about my ex emotionally, swerve from thinking she is a good person deep down who has faults to the opposite extreme of been a right piece of work I fell for sink, line and hook.

Knocked my confidence and can't get her out of my noggin, not to mention I am r-e-a-l-l-y still attracted to her, she was one of those people that turned heads as you walked around. Pretty much my ideal girl in terms of looks and style.

At the moment I can probably do okay with other women again, have the mojo back to an extent, but not really interested cause they don't quite match up to the ex in terms of attraction or natural chemistry.

Is this normal with guys? Not to be vulgar, but currently my..drive is high but particular.

LegacyUser

I am a girl and I don't want to sound big headed but I have the same affect on my ex

I can just walk into a room and he get a hard on
he touches my hair, its comes up
I smile it comes up
I touch his arm it comes up


Its very flattering I must say and we have been on an off for over a decade...he says he is insanely attracted to me and nobody had even remotely had the same affect on him

Even though its off I can call over for a booty call when ever, he would never say no
I slag him and say even if he marries someone else he will end up having an affair with me

This is never going to end OP you just have to learn to live with it
you will end up back with her as you wont get the same "hit" from any other girl

Taltos

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Even though its off I can call over for a booty call when ever, he would never say no
I slag him and say even if he marries someone else he will end up having an affair with me

This is never going to end OP you just have to learn to live with it
you will end up back with her as you wont get the same "hit" from any other girl

OP hopefully this reply has helped start to open your eyes.
Move on - avoid at all costs and try to meet folk who are into you for you and not just for an ego stroke.

We always want what we can't have - and sometime what we want is not what we need. Put distance between you and just focus on being happy - hopefully these feelings will pass - as long are you stay in contact all you are doing is adding fuel to the fire.

cinderella2010

Is there any way of your working it out with this your ex
Its hard to find chemistry like that and it doesn't disappear.....I know from experience

LegacyUser

Op again. Had some major chemistry, as in it seemed inevitable from the first five minutes of meeting for the first time that we would hook up. Like, I had no doubt and just went with the flow. It just clicked, overtime we discovered we had allot in common. Never felt that before or after.

Not to mention..id rather get down dirty with her rather then Megan Fox on a purely physical level!

As for contact, we have none at the moment except the odd run in by coincidence. It was for the best, BUT evidently is not quite working.

cinderella2010

How long has it been since the break up and if you don't mind telling why did ye break up

LegacyUser

Around the start of the summer. As for why, good few reasons, suffice to say I don't make a good doormat and trust was not 100%.

Like, i'm relatively happy at the moment, but missing that spark and natural flow. We would both admit that we were on the same wave length (mostly) and could finish each others sentences and made the most boring of tasks fun.

How often does that come along?