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Confused by girl

  • 25-08-2010 12:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Met a girl at a party through a friend we seemed to hit it off really well and exchanged numbers the following day . Texted each other that night and the next few days and arranged to meet up the next weekend .Anyway met up and had a great night however at the end of the night when she had a few drinks on her she seemed to say she did not want things to go any further i was fine with that. But the strange thing was we spent the night together and she suggested i spend the next day with her so this had me kind of confused.

    Then when i left that mornin did not expect anymore contact but she txted again that night and again a week later even though she was abroad with work. While she was away we txted a few times , not too often as even though she knew i was keen on her did not want to be seen to be taking things too seriously. When she got back we were in contact and arranged to meet up .

    Anyway to make a long story short we met a few nights and it was always the same thing, her telling me how nice i was but she was not sure what she wanted.Then the last time we met we had a great night but at the end of the night she seemed to get angry with me for no reason as if she was just lookin for a row, and once again same story she seemed fine the next morning .

    At this stage i don t know where we are at but a few days later i texted to see did she want to meet and she texted sayin she would get back to me ,that was two weeks ago and i have heard nothing from her since and dont think i will. Admittedly i was very dissapointed at first because even though from our first night out she seemed to be not interested and fairly hard figure out i really liked her and thought she was a very nice person. I do however think it wouldnt have taken alot for her to text me even with some lame excuse about being busy etc instead of just leavin me wondering ,because of this i am thinking of ringing and askin straight out what was the story but i know its probably not a good idea.Anyone any views ?


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  • #2
    Oryx
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    Post moved to its own thread.


  • #3
    Butterflylove
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 229 ✭✭Butterflylove


    OP was this girl just fresh out of a relationship? Sounds to me like she might of been sorry to say you could have been the rebound now not saying that this is what is really going on but she seemed to be ver confused as to what she wanted and didnt want,

    Ive been in the same boat before sadly I also treated a poor guy like this as I was confused about my feelings for ex and new guy etc best way was for me to end it as I was not only messing with my own head but his as well,

    As far as asking her whats up do so along as you dont see one another till she knows what she wants same goes for yourself!


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