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  • 21-08-2010 2:01pm
    #1
    Xena79
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    basically was seeing a guy at the beginning of the year for 3 months, but it just kind of fizzled out with neither of us making much of an effort to continue it. Saw him again on Monday at the local shops and got chatting again, he asked me was I seeing somebody and I lied (don't ask me why) and said yes I was and he said the same. Stayed chatting for a while longer and went off our seperate ways. Is it dead in the water, or should I get in contact again and see if there's anything that can be salvaged? Only problem is i don't know if he did the same as me and lied too?


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  • #2
    lynsalot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 407 ✭✭lynsalot


    Hi Xena

    You said neither of you were too interested in making an effort to continue things previously? This would give me the impression that its best to leave it. Is he in your social circle at all - would u see him unless you made plans to? If so it could be something to work on.


    How do you communicate with him? Texting/phoning?


  • #3
    Xena79
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭Xena79


    yeah I'd see him around quite a bit, but I usually do a runner and not speak to him.. I haven't tried phoning/texting.. I think the reason it was left before was because i'm quite stubborn and if I didn't get communication phoning/texting first I wouldn't do it.. I know that's completely stupid and I am 30 which makes it worse..but I'm now regretting that :(


  • #4
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Hey OP,

    If it had such a lack of fizzle the first time around and you then felt compelled to lie when he asked if you were seeing anyone, I'm not sure what you think the relationship has to offer? He's said he's with someone so unless you want to own up to telling porkies and risk asking if he did the same then I'd just leave it.

    Best of luck


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