Is she still interested?

LegacyUser

Hi lads, I'm a bit embarrassed to ask for advice on this as I have not even said it to my closest friends so i went unreg. To cut a long story short, I met a cracking girl at Oxygen last month and we got on like a house on fire. We even ditched each other's friends and just spent the whole time together, it was brilliant.

The first problem is that we live on opposite sides of the country. After the weekend we were together we were texting each other for a while and she was obviously interested in me, she even suggested we meet up half way and do something for the day, another time she rang me and we spoke on the phone for a good hour chatting. Thing is she went on a trip abroad for a couple weeks after that, she came back last week I texted her "welcome back etc xx " and she responded the next day "thanks babe blah blah" so she obviously remembered me! Problem i I texted here twice after that reply and no response.

Now i am average at best but she is a cracker and an unbelievably nice personality, way out of my league. Don't know if she has lost interest or what? Hence why I am confused and embarrassed to ask for advice off strangers, has she simply lost interest?

ManOfMystery

Well when she suggest meeting up what did you say? Is there a reason you guys haven't met yet? If you didn't say yes or put her off with an excuse, then perhaps she thought you weren't interested in her in that way and has given up trying as she was getting nowhere.

If however you actually agreed to do something soon, who knows - she could be busy, other things on her mind, etc.

Or she simply could have lost interest.

This is the problem with texting, it's hard to know what vibe you're getting off the other person.

Why not ring her for a chat instead of texting? Or ring her and arrange a date to meet on, even if a few days or weeks away?

Ickle Magoo

This is why text is such a bad idea when trying to convey any emotion. She might be thinking, the guy isn't interested or he would do more than text me...

Why not call and ask to meet up again and gauge from her real life reaction how interested she is, at least that way you'll know one way or the other. I wouldn't be texting her again, anyway.

Best of luck

katie99

Omari wrote: »

Hi lads, I'm a bit embarrassed to ask for advice on this as I have not even said it to my closest friends so i went unreg. To cut a long story short, I met a cracking girl at Oxygen last month and we got on like a house on fire. We even ditched each other's friends and just spent the whole time together, it was brilliant.

The first problem is that we live on opposite sides of the country. After the weekend we were together we were texting each other for a while and she was obviously interested in me, she even suggested we meet up half way and do something for the day, another time she rang me and we spoke on the phone for a good hour chatting. Thing is she went on a trip abroad for a couple weeks after that, she came back last week I texted her "welcome back etc xx " and she responded the next day "thanks babe blah blah" so she obviously remembered me! Problem i I texted here twice after that reply and no response.

Now i am average at best but she is a cracker and an unbelievably nice personality, way out of my league. Don't know if she has lost interest or what? Hence why I am confused and embarrassed to ask for advice off strangers, has she simply lost interest?

Don't ever say someone is 'out of your league'. They are not. So what that you say she is a 'cracker'. I take it you mean she is attracitve looking.
Looks fade after a while and it is the character and personality of the person that counts in a relationship.
Don't put yourself down. You are good enough for her. She liked you, she spent time with you.
You obviously gave off positive vibes and there was probably some chemistry between you.
Now whether it is practicable to have a relationship between you, given you both live at oppositve sides of the country is anothe rmatter, but you are just as good for her as she appears to be for you.

Only thing is that it might have been a nice flitatious day for you both and perhaps she is not that keen to continue.
I would put it down to having had a great time but move on - if she doesn't text you over the weekend.

banshee_bones

I would call her and see what the story is and possibly arrange to meet up again and take it from there.

best of luck!

LegacyUser

I texted her last night suggesting we meet up but got no reply. Ah well, sickened but i suppose it was too good to be true! Thanks for replies friends