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This Can't Be Good..

  • 18-08-2010 3:47pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Few months ago broke up with an (Ex) Girlfriend. Messy break up and a rough leading up period, never talked to her again and got rid of memorabilia on the same day. First love, everyone seemed convinced we were a perfect couple.

    Not really over it to be honest. In a state of limbo, after an initial phase of anger and resentment, kinda moved on through the phases, at times I hope she is happy and if anyone asks I say it did not work out, but she is a good person deep down. Only a few friends know the real story.

    Internalized allot of it rather then moaning to others about it. Unfortunately due to circumstances, soon I will most likely bump into herself and friends on a regular basis, no real avoiding this.

    How do I deal with that? Like a glaring reminder sign.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    At some point in the night say a polite hello, don't wander over to say hi, but if you are in the same group talking, break the ice. Dress well, don't look like you're in bits and going to therapy. Don't say much about the rest of your social life, keep her in the dark about what else you are up to.

    Remember you have to win the break up! She might be a nice person but there is an unspoken war going on!


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