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embarrassing q?

  • 16-08-2010 1:13pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi everyone

    firstly, i want to point out that i'm not a naive teenager, but this is a question about sex that i've never figured out

    i'm in my 30's and have had a few relationships and one night stands.

    i've used condoms with all of them except two, the two that i was going out with (have always used pill)

    no issues with STIs, they and i have been checked

    my question is this: how do you know when a guy has come inside you?

    i mean, apart from the speeding up of thrusts, the groans, breathing and facial expressions, apart from that how do you know?

    what i'm really asking is this, i suppose - can/should you feel the semen inside you, does it leak out....

    i get very aroused during sex and would be very wet down below, so to be honest, i dont notice any extra wetness after he comes

    i always go to the loo and wipe after sex, but i never notice actual semen, just general fluid/wetness

    i've heard of the "wet patch" but have never experienced it.


    i know that the amount of semen produced is quite small, but still, should it be noticeable?


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  • #2
    BKtje
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,081 ✭✭✭BKtje


    Depends on the guy and how long since last time he did it (ie if hours it could be not very much) but yes, generally, you'll notice it leaking out afterwards. Assuming of course that no condom was used. This is why it's very hard for a guy to fake it ;)

    That said i'm not female and can only speak from experience.


  • #3
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    If you are good with the kegels, you might be able to feel him come and his penis twitching, when he withdraws there may be some semen still dripping, and you may feel some extra wetness & leaking there and then or even much later on depending on how deeply he deposited said sperm. The volume of sperm also depends on the frequency of his ejaculations and if he naturally produces a lot of seminal fluid or not.


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