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  • 15-08-2010 4:28pm
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    LegacyUser
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    Hey everyone,

    I'm a bit worried lately about myself and my antics. Basically, I really need sex all the time, and have a couple of guys who I see on a regular basis to scratch the itch.

    I don't know if I am normal or not, I am quite adventurous and I'm worried that my experience could put guys off me in the future with regards to relationships. I have been in two big relationships for the most part of the last 6 years and I must say I'm loving experiencing different guys. As far as I can remember, I have been like this and love trying everything.

    If it makes any difference, I'm 23 and just need a bit of reassurance that my sex drive is normal and basically im not weird.

    Thanks


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Normal or not??? wrote: »
    Hey everyone,

    I'm a bit worried lately about myself and my antics. Basically, I really need sex all the time, and have a couple of guys who I see on a regular basis to scratch the itch.

    I don't know if I am normal or not, I am quite adventurous and I'm worried that my experience could put guys off me in the future with regards to relationships. I have been in two big relationships for the most part of the last 6 years and I must say I'm loving experiencing different guys. As far as I can remember, I have been like this and love trying everything.

    If it makes any difference, I'm 23 and just need a bit of reassurance that my sex drive is normal and basically im not weird.

    Thanks

    To answer your question, you are not weird! You are young and living life to the full, which is what makes life worth living.

    If I may offer a word of caution though, being with so many guys can be dangerous both health wise and for you reputation. Living life to the full is great but throwing caution to the wind is a terrible mistake. In years to come you may look back on it with regret or with a smile because you enjoyed life but getting the balance right is important.

    I am good friends with a girl I went to college with, who truly has a hyper sex drive but she scared away a lot of guys that she was serious about in the past and not because of her sex drive. The sheer number of guys she has been with is astounding and it shocked me when I first heard it (although I never told her) and I considered my number quite high for someone of 24. My other friend, really liked her and they started dating but when he heard other guys boast about having been with her and when she told him the amount of partners she has had then he ran a mile and she was heart broken. He later told me the number of guys was intimidating for him but the real problem was that so many other guys made remarks about her which upset him. Anyways I am not defending his decision but basically my friend got the reputation of being "easy" and guys just used her for sex. This really damaged her self esteem and I think I am one of the only guys she has known that has not tried to make a move on her.

    I am not condemning promiscuity in any fashion but I will say that you should guard your reputation because guys like to boast about their supposed conquests without regards for the girls feelings or reputation. Don't get me wrong either, most guys are upstanding and decent but among mates most guys will boast about these sorts of things and thats what starts a bad reputation etc... I realise I will get a lashing from other posters for this but remember that this is just my friends story I am telling and you can take from it what you want.


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