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Acting on feelings for a girl? - Any advice appreciated

  • 15-08-2010 03:06AM
    #1
    Ramza
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,006 ✭✭✭


    Ok, so I am a 19 year old male, I fancy a girl who is 16 (17 in a few months, not that it's important). Soo, I went to school with her, one of my best friends from school was best friends with her and that's how we met. I used to pass her by on the corridor on a daily basis, wave, etc, the usual. I rarely actually had front on conversations with her IRL because she used to hang with her own friends, which is fine. However I did gain her IM address and used to talk to her most every day there. Just usual stuff, nothing too serious.

    One thing worth noting though, whenever I passed her on the corridor as time went on, she used to hang her head down so her hair covered her face is she saw me, or just kind of wave shyly, however I did learn that she was mega shy and she even told me herself

    I didn't think of her like this until now so I didn't try and get with her yet at all. Haven't seen her OR talked in a while, maybe, in a year or more. I don't know what to do. I have feelings for her kind of, I kind of see her in a different light etc. I'm not going to say I am in love with her but I would say infatuation is a good word. I don't know what to do though as I respect her aswell as women in general and her sense of space etc, don't want to overwhelm her etc.

    What is the best thing I can do as I am terrible with this sort of thing? Want to slowly but surely let her know that I'm interested without wholly articulating how I feel all at once/wear my heart on my sleeve etc.


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  • #2
    Zen65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    Ramza wrote: »
    Haven't seen her OR talked in a while, maybe, in a year or more. I don't know what to do. I have feelings for her kind of, I kind of see her in a different light etc. I'm not going to say I am in love with her but I would say infatuation is a good word.

    So, you're having thoughts about somebody you have not seen nor spoken to in about a year? That's a little strange, and your memories of her will have been distorted over time, so if you were to meet her you might be surprised at how different she is to how you remember.

    I would not advise searching for this girl. In fact I would strongly suggest looking around you at what other opportunities you have to meet people. Have these opportunities changed/reduced in the last year, and is that maybe why you're thinking back to this girl?

    Be at peace,

    Z


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