Another Friend Problem...

LegacyUser

Hi all!

I really do not know where to start... If you ask anyone about me, they know me, and they like me, and I'm the nicest girl in the world... But as for anybody wanting to spend time wth me, it just does not happen! I seem to be the last person who comes to mind when friends are organising nights out, so late in fact I've already made staying in plans or am out with others, family say... As for activities that aren't nights out, I don't hear about those at all, I might just see pics of it!

Its really getting to me. I have a couple of good friends, one of whom is out of the country, the other one who is going through a very rough patch. I'm helping her, and I don't like to talk about my problems with her as they are so minor compared to hers. I always felt I fitted in with all the different groups at school but now I'm in limbo. Nobody wants me with them.

So many mornings after the nights I haven't gone out I get the messages, the, "Oh we had a great night, ya should have come out, miss you" messages. I know lots of you will think I'm the one not making an effort but last night for example it happened again. I Facebook chatted a friend and asked the POA. They didn't reply and went offline ater 10 mins. Later on I was already down in the local and I texted another friend, who was on her way to a get-together at another friend's house, to which I had not been invited . My other friend text me not long after just asking if I was going, and I said sure I wasn't invited... I was so upset. Its not the first time that's happened, and every time I'm left feeling like nobody gives a crap about me unless I can do something in return

I just do not know what to do, or who I can turn to!

Odaise Gaelach

Why don't you organise a night out?

LegacyUser

floandthemach wrote: »

Hi all!

I really do not know where to start... If you ask anyone about me, they know me, and they like me, and I'm the nicest girl in the world... But as for anybody wanting to spend time wth me, it just does not happen! I seem to be the last person who comes to mind when friends are organising nights out, so late in fact I've already made staying in plans or am out with others, family say... As for activities that aren't nights out, I don't hear about those at all, I might just see pics of it!

Its really getting to me. I have a couple of good friends, one of whom is out of the country, the other one who is going through a very rough patch. I'm helping her, and I don't like to talk about my problems with her as they are so minor compared to hers. I always felt I fitted in with all the different groups at school but now I'm in limbo. Nobody wants me with them.

So many mornings after the nights I haven't gone out I get the messages, the, "Oh we had a great night, ya should have come out, miss you" messages. I know lots of you will think I'm the one not making an effort but last night for example it happened again. I Facebook chatted a friend and asked the POA. They didn't reply and went offline ater 10 mins. Later on I was already down in the local and I texted another friend, who was on her way to a get-together at another friend's house, to which I had not been invited . My other friend text me not long after just asking if I was going, and I said sure I wasn't invited... I was so upset. Its not the first time that's happened, and every time I'm left feeling like nobody gives a crap about me unless I can do something in return

I just do not know what to do, or who I can turn